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KuteKat

Bracelet King

9 months, 1 week ago by KuteKat

Hey, just curious if anyone has any tips for getting over a break up with a long- time boyfriend (over a year). Thx.

Zaan_13

Bracelet King

9 months, 1 week ago by Zaan_13

aw sorry about the breakup!
I try to vent to friends in the beginning for a little while but then I switch over to journaling and just write all my feelings out (doesn't need to make any sense, just write what comes to mind). I also try to 'overwrite' some of the memories we've made (e.g. a fave tv show / place to go together). This one might be difficult in the beginning but it is worth doing later on when things don't feel as heavy! I also hide/remove them from social media because searching them up regularly is never good especially when they are actively posting. It helps to keep busy so you're not stuck thinking about them but it's also good to have the time just to be sad occasionally. I think it's also important to remind yourself why things happened. You'll be stuck remembering all the really good times but remember that things do happen for a reason (hopefully nothing bad though), and you'll figure out the reason eventually. And most importantly, give yourself space to heal and grow! Take the time to be sad like I said but don't get stuck into it because it's important you make progress beyond it! It's all easier said than done ik (my last breakup took me ages to move on from) but little by little you'll get there 😊 Take it easy and all the best ❤️ ❤️

cami16

Advanced

9 months ago by cami16

Its okay to cry. Getting over a break up takes long but you'll get there eventually. Try talking abt it with friends or family, or find distractions that can take your mind off it for a while. Hope you are feeling a bit better! If you need to talk send me a message i'll listen🙂

KuteKat Bracelet King	9 months, 1 week ago by KuteKat Hey, just curious if anyone has any tips for getting over a break up with a long- time boyfriend (over a year). Thx.
Zaan_13 Bracelet King	9 months, 1 week ago by Zaan_13 aw sorry about the breakup! I try to vent to friends in the beginning for a little while but then I switch over to journaling and just write all my feelings out (doesn't need to make any sense, just write what comes to mind). I also try to 'overwrite' some of the memories we've made (e.g. a fave tv show / place to go together). This one might be difficult in the beginning but it is worth doing later on when things don't feel as heavy! I also hide/remove them from social media because searching them up regularly is never good especially when they are actively posting. It helps to keep busy so you're not stuck thinking about them but it's also good to have the time just to be sad occasionally. I think it's also important to remind yourself why things happened. You'll be stuck remembering all the really good times but remember that things do happen for a reason (hopefully nothing bad though), and you'll figure out the reason eventually. And most importantly, give yourself space to heal and grow! Take the time to be sad like I said but don't get stuck into it because it's important you make progress beyond it! It's all easier said than done ik (my last breakup took me ages to move on from) but little by little you'll get there 😊 Take it easy and all the best ❤️ ❤️
cami16 Advanced	9 months ago by cami16 Its okay to cry. Getting over a break up takes long but you'll get there eventually. Try talking abt it with friends or family, or find distractions that can take your mind off it for a while. Hope you are feeling a bit better! If you need to talk send me a message i'll listen🙂

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