Forum - Other - ghosted before a trade?

BGV88

Professional

1 year, 10 months ago by BGV88

hi guys! so basically this person was requesting help/to purchase an alpha because they were unable to make it, and i said i could definitely make it and we basically worked out a trade. we both finished the bracelets agreed upon and posted them as proof that we made them, she sent me her address but i was in the process of moving so i waited about a week until i knew that this would be an address i would keep for an extended period of time ( since it was international and would take a while to get here ) she had already sent me her address but wanted to wait until she had mine so we could ship them at the same time. it’s been about a month at this point and i haven’t heard from her since and was wondering what i should do. i’ve sent 3 or 4 messages and haven’t been replied to at all. i now have a custom alpha that makes no sense to me and that i’m not interested in keeping for myself. i don’t know if there’s any what that an admin or someone else could get in contact with her and or me but that would be great, i just really want to send this bracelet to her!

crafter83

Bracelet King

1 year, 9 months ago by crafter83

I’d personally wait for them to reply. You have done everything you could to let them know. Maybe something major happened that’s kept them off here

halokiwi

Moderator

1 year, 9 months ago by halokiwi

It happens a lot, that people just aren't active on braceletbook anymore or take breaks 🙂 do you have any other way of contacting her for example a social media platform?

You could also just send the alpha to her via mail. Since it is not an alpha that is useful to keep for yourself, it is not really a loss for you, except for the cost of sending it. If sending it is very expensive, all you can do is wait until you get a reply.

BGV88 Professional	1 year, 10 months ago by BGV88 hi guys! so basically this person was requesting help/to purchase an alpha because they were unable to make it, and i said i could definitely make it and we basically worked out a trade. we both finished the bracelets agreed upon and posted them as proof that we made them, she sent me her address but i was in the process of moving so i waited about a week until i knew that this would be an address i would keep for an extended period of time ( since it was international and would take a while to get here ) she had already sent me her address but wanted to wait until she had mine so we could ship them at the same time. it’s been about a month at this point and i haven’t heard from her since and was wondering what i should do. i’ve sent 3 or 4 messages and haven’t been replied to at all. i now have a custom alpha that makes no sense to me and that i’m not interested in keeping for myself. i don’t know if there’s any what that an admin or someone else could get in contact with her and or me but that would be great, i just really want to send this bracelet to her!
crafter83 Bracelet King	1 year, 9 months ago by crafter83 I’d personally wait for them to reply. You have done everything you could to let them know. Maybe something major happened that’s kept them off here
halokiwi Moderator	1 year, 9 months ago by halokiwi It happens a lot, that people just aren't active on braceletbook anymore or take breaks 🙂 do you have any other way of contacting her for example a social media platform? You could also just send the alpha to her via mail. Since it is not an alpha that is useful to keep for yourself, it is not really a loss for you, except for the cost of sending it. If sending it is very expensive, all you can do is wait until you get a reply.

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