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Cloud10
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1 year, 10 months ago by Cloud10
So my friends ghosted me, For no reason they’ve been planing this for weeks. My friend who has been my friend for 7 yrs even did I don’t know what to do or say. I kinda hate myself, I don’t know what I did. My friend Delilah is toxic, she is a mean to everyone, and forces my friend Olivia (7 yrs girl) do all this stuff she doesn’t wanna do. And some how she planes a scheme with all my friends to ghost me. I had to put on a straight face all today, and through Shakespeare. And Olivia and Delilah went home together. Yeah rn I’m balling my eyes out wondering what I did wrong. Idk I need help
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jazzyghost
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1 year, 10 months ago by jazzyghost
Aww that really stinks D: people can be mean sometimes. Something similar happened to me when I was 11 (I'm 16 now) with my best friend since Kindergarten being convinced to leave me by her new friend. Stuff like that really hurts and makes you question your value. Life is really sad sometimes, but all these years later I've found that the pain was really a blessing in disguise. God led me out of a toxic relationship (with the new girl) and helped me forge an original path that was beneficial for myself (my former best friend has made pretty bad decisions). My best advice is to try your best to forgive the girls who hurt you and analyze whether it's really worth it to pursue reconciliation. Little fights happen all the time when you're young, but sometimes enough is enough. It can also be a good opportunity to branch out and meet new people! I have pretty hard social anxiety so making friends is hard for me. It took a whole year to find a new friend group I was comfortable with after my best friend left me. Keep your chin up and remember things get better!But then again, I'm just a random girl on the internet, so take what I say with a healthy dose of salt 😁 |
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Cloud10
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1 year, 10 months ago by Cloud10
Aww Ty and lol
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Cloud10
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1 year, 10 months ago by Cloud10
@Update they said the reason they hate me is cause they think I’m mentally ill (i am not)
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kindcat
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1 year, 10 months ago by kindcat
5 words. My crush ( had ) a girlfriend.
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Cloud10
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1 year, 10 months ago by Cloud10
😱
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kindcat
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1 year, 10 months ago by kindcat
I think he likes me we were talking today I don’t like like him when I say crush I mean like someone who I want to be better friends with. I used to like like him though 😬
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PugCakePop
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1 year, 10 months ago by PugCakePop
@Cloud10 ok if they randomly assumed you were mentally i'll and made no effort to communicate or salvage any friendship- drop them. it's better to cut off toxic people from your life, and it's definitely better to have no friends than bad friends. like the other person said branch out, maybe find common interests with people so you can make new friends.
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Cloud10
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1 year, 10 months ago by Cloud10
Yeah I did that (:
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reagan_15
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1 year, 8 months ago by reagan_15
My "best friend" barely even talks to me anymore. She'll act all perky in front of other people, but she acts like something's wrong when I'm around. She hangs out with all of her other friends, but it seems like she doesn't want to hang out with me. She kinda stopped talking to be around xmas break, and it's been four months that it's been going on. We sit together at lunch, but she doesn't even say much to me. I'm always the first to start a conversation with her, and I'll just get a head nod or a "yeah" from her. like wtf. and I know she has her own problems, but at this point I'm so angry, annoyed, hurt and frustrated. I sometimes think "I'm done feeling bad, I'm not going to do this anymore"
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kindcat
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1 year, 8 months ago by kindcat
My best friend is well not my best friend anymore… he has been my best friend for 12 years now and he has been making fun of me in front of my new best friend. My new best friend always stops him and instead points out the same things that he dose or has. He is such a sweet friend and I am so lucky to have him!! ❤️
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Shiny_Gems
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1 year, 8 months ago by Shiny_Gems
School stress
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Cloud10
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1 year, 8 months ago by Cloud10
@reagan_15 Same I’m sooo sorry 😞
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Cloud10
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1 year, 8 months ago by Cloud10
@kindcat I’m so sorry
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Cloud10
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1 year, 8 months ago by Cloud10
@Shiny_Gems school can be really stressful at the end of the year
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kindcat
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1 year, 8 months ago by kindcat
It’s ok
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reagan_15
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1 year, 8 months ago by reagan_15
@Cloud10 thank you, I'm sorry that's happening to you too
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fishyknots
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1 year, 8 months ago by fishyknots
@reagan_15 I'm really sorry about what's going on. I think it would be best to talk to her and have a conversation about what's going on. It's okay when friendships change and it's totally normal, everyone goes through it at some point. Don't feel bad about losing her as a friend, you didn't do anything wrong. Sometimes people just grow apart. It's gonna be okay ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
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Cloud10
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1 year, 8 months ago by Cloud10
Tysm
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reagan_15
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1 year, 8 months ago by reagan_15
@fishyknots thank you so much. I'm going to focus on my other friends and middle school's really hard with friendships. I know I didn't do anything wrong, but I sometimes think I did. It really hurts, but I'm kinda used to it by now
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