Crush advice
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Delaneybo
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2 years ago by Delaneybo
❤️ so I have a crush on this person [they/them pronouns assigned female at birth for yall who want to know]They have been friends with me since fourth grade [3 years ago] and we just have fallen out, I had done that awkward thing where I told them I like them and they didn't tell me how they felt [they weren't interested in me] and I don't go to their school anymore, the fallout was just the fact we didn't have classes together and we couldn't text, and I really want to not lose them even if we stay just friends. any tips? |
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halokiwi
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2 years ago by halokiwi
I think communication is key. Tell your friend that it is important to you that you stay friends and try to come up with a solution together how you can reconnect/spend more time together. Tell your friend that you are alright with the two of you being friends and that you value your friendship. Give them the space to pull back temporarily, if they need it. Make clear, that they can come back to you whenever they like, that you are always open for them.
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Delaneybo
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2 years ago by Delaneybo
@halokiwi Thank you, you are so right ❤️
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gingergaze
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2 years ago by gingergaze
I think you should give them space, time to process, and once you think you've spent enough time apart, maybe approach them and ask their perspective on the situation. See if they're willing to reconnect, as friends, or in a more serious relationship. 🙂
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