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Lavender7

Bracelet King

2 years, 5 months ago by Lavender7

ello so to get right to the point...
last feb i met this awesome girl, shes super pretty, her personality is so lovely and im just in love with her. so from the beginning i kind of had a crush on her cuz like i said shes awesome. i was unsure though cuz if we ever brought up people we have a ccrush on shed always say she didnt like anyone, and i believed it untill this point. so lately weve been spending alot of time together cuz were super good friends. once she invited me to the mall and it was just me and her she didnt even invite anyone else. shes super touchy and she leans on me every chance she gets and shell like lay her head on my shoulder, she calls me pretty and just super sweet, and she took a bunch of just random pictures of me for *no* reason. everytime im with her and her other friends she always sits like leaned against me. i spent the night at her house (cuz we are reallygood friends) and we decided to watch heartstopper, the whole time though the show she laid in my lap and held my hand. she makes fun of me alot in like a cute funny way and she doesnt mean any of it its like flirting kind of? (shes also bi and yeah so i know she likes girls too) anyways i want to ask her like to be girlfriends but were really close friends and i feel like if i ask her that and she agrees and we break up our friendship would go down the drain. im also scared shes just using me for like just leaning on yk cuz ive had that happen and it sucks. i really dont think shes using me fora kind of romatic<? >friendship. anyways yeah so idk what to do. she always says im super cute and yeah. h eLp
thanks for reading all that nonsense!
love you all, stay safe and take care of yourselves.
if you need someone to vent to at any point im happy to help.
❤️ ❤️

aubreeeyxo

Professional

2 years, 5 months ago by aubreeeyxo

Its all about being confident, does she act the way she acts around u to other people? Like lay her head on other people? I think it sounds like she might feel a way, i also dont want to ruin your friendship, if you feel comfortable telling her go for it! If not thats ok! Do what you feel comfortable doing!

Lavender7

Bracelet King

2 years, 4 months ago by Lavender7

@aubreeeyxo to answer your question no she doesnt lay her head on anyone or even hug them back for that matter. but thsm <33 i just dont wanna ruin the friendship but thank you 🙂
have a good day or night

__Mash__

Professional

2 years, 4 months ago by __Mash__

@Lavender7 Be confident! If u are ready,tell her how you feel, don't hide it for too long in yourself. Be ready for the ways she can react. Like go to a park or watch the sunset together and tell her. Only if you feel comfortable and confident to do that. Good luck!🍀🙂

Lavender7

Bracelet King

2 years, 4 months ago by Lavender7

@__Mash__ okay ill try thsm!

Lavender7 Bracelet King	2 years, 5 months ago by Lavender7 ello so to get right to the point... last feb i met this awesome girl, shes super pretty, her personality is so lovely and im just in love with her. so from the beginning i kind of had a crush on her cuz like i said shes awesome. i was unsure though cuz if we ever brought up people we have a ccrush on shed always say she didnt like anyone, and i believed it untill this point. so lately weve been spending alot of time together cuz were super good friends. once she invited me to the mall and it was just me and her she didnt even invite anyone else. shes super touchy and she leans on me every chance she gets and shell like lay her head on my shoulder, she calls me pretty and just super sweet, and she took a bunch of just random pictures of me for no reason. everytime im with her and her other friends she always sits like leaned against me. i spent the night at her house (cuz we are reallygood friends) and we decided to watch heartstopper, the whole time though the show she laid in my lap and held my hand. she makes fun of me alot in like a cute funny way and she doesnt mean any of it its like flirting kind of? (shes also bi and yeah so i know she likes girls too) anyways i want to ask her like to be girlfriends but were really close friends and i feel like if i ask her that and she agrees and we break up our friendship would go down the drain. im also scared shes just using me for like just leaning on yk cuz ive had that happen and it sucks. i really dont think shes using me fora kind of romatic<? >friendship. anyways yeah so idk what to do. she always says im super cute and yeah. h eLp thanks for reading all that nonsense! love you all, stay safe and take care of yourselves. if you need someone to vent to at any point im happy to help. ❤️ ❤️
aubreeeyxo Professional	2 years, 5 months ago by aubreeeyxo Its all about being confident, does she act the way she acts around u to other people? Like lay her head on other people? I think it sounds like she might feel a way, i also dont want to ruin your friendship, if you feel comfortable telling her go for it! If not thats ok! Do what you feel comfortable doing!
Lavender7 Bracelet King	2 years, 4 months ago by Lavender7 @aubreeeyxo to answer your question no she doesnt lay her head on anyone or even hug them back for that matter. but thsm <33 i just dont wanna ruin the friendship but thank you 🙂 have a good day or night
__Mash__ Professional	2 years, 4 months ago by __Mash__ @Lavender7 Be confident! If u are ready,tell her how you feel, don't hide it for too long in yourself. Be ready for the ways she can react. Like go to a park or watch the sunset together and tell her. Only if you feel comfortable and confident to do that. Good luck!🍀🙂
Lavender7 Bracelet King	2 years, 4 months ago by Lavender7 @__Mash__ okay ill try thsm!

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