FAMILY DRAMA
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goldclouds
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goldclouds
2 years, 6 months ago by goldclouds
I need help coping with this drama bc me and my cousins are jealous of each other, we fight over our aunt, my grandparents specifically my grandma uses her phone at the table and rarely talks and I have ADHD so anger can be a problem and I want to help people and work it out please help me
blue-eli
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blue-eli
2 years, 6 months ago by blue-eli
I would love to help you, but my coping mechanism isn’t really good. I just go away from the drama, because that seem like the only solution for me. When I have to stay (for example at the table with other family members) I am silent, I try to say something nice just to make the time better. I don’t know if this makes sense, I’m sorry, but I hope it helps a little bit<3
goldclouds
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goldclouds
2 years, 6 months ago by goldclouds
Thanks
AC4_
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AC4_
2 years, 6 months ago by AC4_
@goldclouds Try finding something about yourself that you really love to help you feel less jealous of your cousin and remember you are perfect just the way you are so there is no reason to be jealous. And maybe ask your Grandma before dinner to put her phone down until dinner is over. but remember to be kind and respectful when you ask her! good luck!
xc2024
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xc2024
2 years, 5 months ago by xc2024
if everyone is on their phones at dinner i just start talking to them so it makes them look rude if they ignore me, like ask about their day or what they wanna do tomorrow. simple stuff like that typically starts a conversation and gets people to put phones down if you talk directly to them
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