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Elise64

Bracelet King

2 years, 10 months ago by Elise64

I’ve been going with the term lesbian for a few weeks, but I started questioning recently. I thought that some guys were cute but I wasn’t sure if I just thought they were attractive but not attracted to them. i saw someone on tiktok who had been going by pan but started questioning their sexuality again because they felt that even though some men were attractive she didn’t feel anything and that’s kind of how I feel. i started to think that I kind of felt the same way about girls when I started questioning my sexuality but now that I think about it I was genuinely attracted to some girls and didn’t realize it, but wasn’t really attracted to any guys. i feel like when I see a guy I think is cute, it’s because i feel like I’m supposed to like him. i also realized that guys just make me uncomfortable in general and I could have been mistaking that for attraction. when I see a girl I like I get really happy but if there’s a guy I think is cute i don’t really care that much. I’m also confused about my gender because I feel like a girl mostly, but I also don’t understand the concept of gender. wearing clothes that aren’t considered “feminine” and looking more androgynous makes me really happy but I don’t know if it’s gender euphoria or not.

Elise64

Bracelet King

2 years, 10 months ago by Elise64

i also feel like if it had been more normalized for me to have a crush on a girl I wouldn’t have been as confused as I am now. I’ve always been accepting of lgbtq people and my family is but I feel like i didn’t really think of it as an option until I started questioning (by the way, i know I’m not straight, I’m basically trying to decide if I’m lesbian or bi)

venusgeeky

Skiller

2 years, 10 months ago by venusgeeky

It's really hard to say what your sexuality is but you don't have to like guys to find them attractive. way you're describing gender feels like you might be a demi-girl (you feel mostly like a girl but not fully). I'm Bi and non-binary btw

Elise64

Bracelet King

1 year, 8 months ago by Elise64

@update i’m gender-fluid and bi w/ a preference for men now, so much has changed l

Elise64

Bracelet King

1 year, 8 months ago by Elise64

*lol

Elise64 Bracelet King	2 years, 10 months ago by Elise64 I’ve been going with the term lesbian for a few weeks, but I started questioning recently. I thought that some guys were cute but I wasn’t sure if I just thought they were attractive but not attracted to them. i saw someone on tiktok who had been going by pan but started questioning their sexuality again because they felt that even though some men were attractive she didn’t feel anything and that’s kind of how I feel. i started to think that I kind of felt the same way about girls when I started questioning my sexuality but now that I think about it I was genuinely attracted to some girls and didn’t realize it, but wasn’t really attracted to any guys. i feel like when I see a guy I think is cute, it’s because i feel like I’m supposed to like him. i also realized that guys just make me uncomfortable in general and I could have been mistaking that for attraction. when I see a girl I like I get really happy but if there’s a guy I think is cute i don’t really care that much. I’m also confused about my gender because I feel like a girl mostly, but I also don’t understand the concept of gender. wearing clothes that aren’t considered “feminine” and looking more androgynous makes me really happy but I don’t know if it’s gender euphoria or not.
Elise64 Bracelet King	2 years, 10 months ago by Elise64 i also feel like if it had been more normalized for me to have a crush on a girl I wouldn’t have been as confused as I am now. I’ve always been accepting of lgbtq people and my family is but I feel like i didn’t really think of it as an option until I started questioning (by the way, i know I’m not straight, I’m basically trying to decide if I’m lesbian or bi)
venusgeeky Skiller	2 years, 10 months ago by venusgeeky It's really hard to say what your sexuality is but you don't have to like guys to find them attractive. way you're describing gender feels like you might be a demi-girl (you feel mostly like a girl but not fully). I'm Bi and non-binary btw
Elise64 Bracelet King	1 year, 8 months ago by Elise64 @update i’m gender-fluid and bi w/ a preference for men now, so much has changed l
Elise64 Bracelet King	1 year, 8 months ago by Elise64 *lol

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