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61805327
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3 years, 1 month ago by 61805327
Ok so I am friends with this guy. We have been really good friends for a while now. I love him as a friend but maybe a tiny bit more then a friend but the smallest amount. So the problem is that everyone at school thinks we are dating or like each other and I tell them that we are not and it gets worse. Even my dad thinks we are dating and my mom thinks we act like siblings. What should I do? |
61805327
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3 years, 1 month ago by 61805327
And part of me thinks he likes me too
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Zaan_13
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3 years, 1 month ago by Zaan_13
Sometimes the more you say no the more ppl believe it which can get annoying ik, but maybe just brush them off / be really uninterested and they'd eventually get over it and stop bothering you. I had a similar thing w my dad he thought I made a good couple with one of my friends too haha but I just denied it. If your dad is also joking about it then that may be a good sign bc it shows he approves of your friend dating you should it acc happen. How does your friend react to people telling him y'all are dating? You can try to talk to him and ask how he feels about all the assumptions. Maybe after there you can think about whether you'd wanna be more than friends or keep things the way they are. Good luck, it's great you have such a close friend regardless of everything else 😊 |
Pacia
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3 years, 1 month ago by Pacia
joke about it. flirt with him as a joke. its stupidly funny trust me i do it all the time
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Pacia
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3 years, 1 month ago by Pacia
there wasnt a friend in last 3 years of my life that i havent jokingly flirted with
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Pacia
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3 years, 1 month ago by Pacia
(just make sure hes comfortable with it, we dont wanna be breaking boundaries haha)
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61805327
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3 years, 1 month ago by 61805327
Ok thanks hahahaha
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big_bank
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3 years, 1 month ago by big_bank
they think with their dicks. it’s a very large issue. literally why i like women
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big_bank
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3 years, 1 month ago by big_bank
im somehow still attracted to guys despite how immature they can be in high school it’s kinda funny. i have a lot of great guy friends tho
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61805327
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3 years, 1 month ago by 61805327
Yessss lol
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twiggytape
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3 years ago by twiggytape
idk im gay
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xc2024
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3 years ago by xc2024
@61805327 i’m in the same type of situation, except the only reasons we aren’t dating is bc we both run xc and track(distance), so it’d be super awkward if we break up, and we don’t wanna lose each other as friends since we are really close, it’s easier said then done, but i just ignored them, and in like 2 years nobody cares who’s dating who unless someone cheated. idk what grade your in, but everyone cared in middle school, now i’m a high school sophomore and nobody other then my super close friends care, just wait it out, something new will happen and everyone will forget about y’all not dating
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