LGBTQ+ š³ļøāš talk group ā¤ļø support encouraged
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foxfacel4
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by foxfacel4
Hi, Iām Ava. Talk about anything that has to do with ur sexuality. Support appreciated ā¤ļøš³ļøāš
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foxfacel4
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by foxfacel4
Also Iām new, so Iām looking for friends
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ChaosZone
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by ChaosZone
This is kinda random but it's just something that I thought was funny that happened that I wanted to shareš So I used to be straight and I thought that was it. But then I realized I wasn't and after a long time I figured out I was Bisexual. So I came out around april this year. And my parents were super supportive and we talked about it and stuff. But I was just very certain that I would be Bi forever and so happy that I was done wondering what my sexuality was because that was really hard. And then a few months later I was like "ok no wait I'm definitely not bi" and I had to figure it all out again and then I came out as Omnisexual š š It was hilarious. And after all that I was like "well at least I know I'm a girl and I won't have to figure out my gender" and now I think I'm nonbinary and have to figure out all that š and it's just so funny because three times I was so certain that this was it and it won't change but then it's not and I have to keep coming up with ideas to come out too š But also I don't know when to come out to other people besides my parents because I don't know if it will change again and then I will have so many more people to tell that I'm something else now š š¤
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Firecorn
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by Firecorn
So Iām having a bit of a pronoun problem Iām a demigirl so she/they but lately Iāve been like yeah I prefer they/she like more they less she but Iām still a demigirl but idk I donāt think in nb but idk Iām still cool with she her but idk
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Elise64
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by Elise64
Iām questioning rn, and it was sort of going back and forth between āIām probably straightā and āIām definitely biā. the past few days and especially yesterday, I was almost sure that Iām bi. there are two girls (maybe three) that I think I have a crush on and whenever I think Iām straight I look at them again and think ānope Iām definitely biā lmao. I always feel like Iām faking it because I am not scared of what people would think of me when I come out, itās really confusing. i know that the people I live with are accepting, and the rest of my family probably is too, so Iām not scared to come out to them. Iām not scared to come out to my friends. two of them Iām 99% arenāt homophobic and I assume the rest arenāt either, but Iām still not scared about coming out to them. itās weird cuz they are the closest friends Iāve ever had (besides one of the people who I know isnāt homophobic, sheās probably the closest friend that I have) but Iāve never been afraid of losing them for some reason. Iām always scared of what people will think of me, but when it comes to my sexuality I never am. Iāve never been homophobic when I was younger, but in April when I saw an acting skit about homophobia, I got really passionate about standing against it. i saw a lot of homophobic posts on Pinterest, and they really bother me, but even after knowing that Iām probably bisexual, I felt fine because I know Iām not in the wrong.
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Elise64
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by Elise64
one of the girls that I like was behind me in line when we were waiting to get into French class, and she asked me what my name was and if we had a quiz tomorrow or today, Iām worried about how I looked because Iām really insecure about myself š and one day in chorus, the other girl that I like was sitting at the side of my row that I walk to my seat near, and she made eye contact with me, i always try to make myself look skinnier than I actually am. sometimes I remember things more exaggerated than they actually were if that makes sense (I wasnāt holding onto the edge of my seat on the bus once so I sort of bumped into this guy that I was sitting next to and I remember it as if i was crashing into him, I used to remember answering a person basically while they were still talking when I didnāt) so I thought that I made eye contact with her for a long time and looked bigger than I actually did. also I donāt wash my face often, and I just started realizing a few weeks ago that my face looks oily š„² I just want to tell them that theyāre pretty so bad, but Iām nervous and it would be awkward because theyāre both my friendās other friends š this isnāt something that Iām upset about or anything but I had a dream the other day that one of my crushes said that I looked masculine and in the dream I remembered it as a compliment, but it was actually something I was sort of insecure about lmao it was so weird. itās not exactly that I feel masculine, but I feel like I donāt fit in with the girls sometimes, but i donāt feel like a boy either. i think I still identify as a girl, but I honestly donāt know. i also forgot to mention some of my other problems, I sometimes feel like I just like a girls clothes, except sometimes I just feel like I would like girls in any clothes, itās hard to explain. i feel bad because I like a lot of songs about being lgbtq/being in lgbtq relationships, and if I end up realizing that Iām not lgbtq, I will still like them and want to listen to them in front of my family, and Iām scared that people will think that itās wrong to listen to them when Iām not lgbtq. but Iāve found songwriting a good way to express myself because i canāt be faking my sexuality if Iām just writing a song about questioning. but Iāve found that other people listen to girl in redās music and it helped them when they were questioning their sexuality so Iām not alone. I am sort of scared of a Christian trying to pray that my feelings for girls will go away, because if it genuinely works then I will be more confused. Iāve heard online about a person who prayed for their own feelings of girls to go away, and they did, but I also know that some people prayed for them to go away and they didnāt.
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Elise64
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by Elise64
lmao sorry, those were way too long, you donāt have to read it all but I just needed to rant.
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foxfacel4
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by foxfacel4
@Elise64 glad I could help sis šā¤ļø
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senor
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3Ā years, 2Ā months ago by senor
@smmutch just bc you donāt support it doesnāt mean u need to make everyone feel bad about themselves over something they canāt control. you donāt support it fine, you want to post a forum thread about it and say you dont support it, fine. i donāt agree with it, but thatās on ur terf and u can do what u want w ur threads. donāt go on other ppls threads. itās extremely rude and disrespectful. youāre hurting other people by voicing your opinions. just because you disagree doesnāt mean you have to disrespect.
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Elise64
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3Ā years, 1Ā month ago by Elise64
i was just looking up the international days for the sexualites i could be and pansexual visibility day is the day before my birthday š Iām probably not pansexual but it made me so happy
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crafter83
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3Ā years, 1Ā month ago by crafter83
@Firecorn Thatās okay. You can tell people you prefer one over the other. Plus you can identify as Demigirl still. Gender is rough and itās okay to not fit norms for it or switch it if needed
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crafter83
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3Ā years, 1Ā month ago by crafter83
@Elise64 One you can still be a Christian and gay/ bi/ etc.( yes homophobes I know youāre mentally screaming but itās true). Two itās okay to like music regardless if you are or not. Iām agnostic but I still listen to religious songs and like them
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Firecorn
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3Ā years, 1Ā month ago by Firecorn
@crafter83 tysm! š
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