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zyxwvut

Professional

3 years, 7 months ago by zyxwvut

Hi everyone🙂
This is kind of a rant page where you can either also rant or give advice. For now I’m gonna start with a rant lol.

So my last day of school was Thursday and it’s only the second day of summer break. Already I have kind of realized that my “friends” aren’t talking to me and I feel like I’m being ignored. I feel like I don’t actually have friends that I know will support me. I have two close friends: one who is judgy, and the other I don’t ever see. The first one kind of makes feel feel stupid sometimes but I try my best to support her through everything. The other, like I said, I never see her and she has other friends that she hangs out with more. Also, they don’t like each other. I know that they have other friend that they also want to spend time with but sometimes it’s like I’m just pushed to the side. It feels like we’re already growing apart and by next week I’ll have no one. I’ve talked about this on here before and everyone says quality over quantity but I feel like I’m lacking in both. It kind of makes me wonder if I’m the problem. Does anyone else feel this way?

Sorry for ranting and thank you if read through it. It means a lot to me. I feel like everyone on here is so nice even though I don’t know you guys. Thanks again! Hope y’all have the best day ever☺️

mayarn

Bracelet King

3 years, 7 months ago by mayarn

@zyxwvut Hi!
I understand how you feel, and I'd love to help, but not sure if I can...
However, maybe you have to be the one to reach out, because it seems like with my friends at least that if I invite them, they are happy to come along, but otherwise, they dont think about reaching out to me.
Not sure if this helps, but I know that many people on bracelet book, including me have been feeling left out or lonely...
So, I recommend finding some friends on here, that may understand you and help you out, or even just chat, and be friends...

pivi658

Professional

3 years, 7 months ago by pivi658

I can def understand how ur feeling. That kinda stuff can happen but whatever happens between u and ur friends I’m strongly gonna say this, don’t fully depend on people all the time to have fun(especially in summer). When I was going thru a rough patch w/ friends it was around the end of school going into summer break. We stopped talking and I let that consume me kinda. Looking back on it now I could have made more out of my summer but I just stayed inside and barely went out beciase I kept on telling myself the excuse that I needed friends to go out. Everyone’s social circle changes thru the years so if they leave you out/stop talking to you, you can try to fix your relationship but don’t sweat on it too too much.

Btw, sweat too much over thinking it’s ur fault that they don’t wanna be around you much. If you do beleive that’s the case, do a self check and see how ur treating ur friends. You could even ask ur friends and communicate with them (communication is soo important in relationships). Express that ur feeling left out. But my advice is to not overthink that u r the problem. I hope that’s helpful somehow haha😅

zyxwvut

Professional

3 years, 7 months ago by zyxwvut

Thanks guys! I was thinking about it and I think I'm going to try and put more effort into our friendships. If we are still distant after some time of me trying to communicate then I may try to move on. I hope you guys have a great day.

zyxwvut Professional	3 years, 7 months ago by zyxwvut Hi everyone🙂 This is kind of a rant page where you can either also rant or give advice. For now I’m gonna start with a rant lol. So my last day of school was Thursday and it’s only the second day of summer break. Already I have kind of realized that my “friends” aren’t talking to me and I feel like I’m being ignored. I feel like I don’t actually have friends that I know will support me. I have two close friends: one who is judgy, and the other I don’t ever see. The first one kind of makes feel feel stupid sometimes but I try my best to support her through everything. The other, like I said, I never see her and she has other friends that she hangs out with more. Also, they don’t like each other. I know that they have other friend that they also want to spend time with but sometimes it’s like I’m just pushed to the side. It feels like we’re already growing apart and by next week I’ll have no one. I’ve talked about this on here before and everyone says quality over quantity but I feel like I’m lacking in both. It kind of makes me wonder if I’m the problem. Does anyone else feel this way? Sorry for ranting and thank you if read through it. It means a lot to me. I feel like everyone on here is so nice even though I don’t know you guys. Thanks again! Hope y’all have the best day ever☺️
mayarn Bracelet King	3 years, 7 months ago by mayarn @zyxwvut Hi! I understand how you feel, and I'd love to help, but not sure if I can... However, maybe you have to be the one to reach out, because it seems like with my friends at least that if I invite them, they are happy to come along, but otherwise, they dont think about reaching out to me. Not sure if this helps, but I know that many people on bracelet book, including me have been feeling left out or lonely... So, I recommend finding some friends on here, that may understand you and help you out, or even just chat, and be friends...
pivi658 Professional	3 years, 7 months ago by pivi658 I can def understand how ur feeling. That kinda stuff can happen but whatever happens between u and ur friends I’m strongly gonna say this, don’t fully depend on people all the time to have fun(especially in summer). When I was going thru a rough patch w/ friends it was around the end of school going into summer break. We stopped talking and I let that consume me kinda. Looking back on it now I could have made more out of my summer but I just stayed inside and barely went out beciase I kept on telling myself the excuse that I needed friends to go out. Everyone’s social circle changes thru the years so if they leave you out/stop talking to you, you can try to fix your relationship but don’t sweat on it too too much. Btw, sweat too much over thinking it’s ur fault that they don’t wanna be around you much. If you do beleive that’s the case, do a self check and see how ur treating ur friends. You could even ask ur friends and communicate with them (communication is soo important in relationships). Express that ur feeling left out. But my advice is to not overthink that u r the problem. I hope that’s helpful somehow haha😅
zyxwvut Professional	3 years, 7 months ago by zyxwvut Thanks guys! I was thinking about it and I think I'm going to try and put more effort into our friendships. If we are still distant after some time of me trying to communicate then I may try to move on. I hope you guys have a great day.

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