how can I be less awkward with an old friend that I haven't talked to while meeting in real life???
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
Hi! So I have this one old friend that I've been trying to talk to and become friends with again (if that makes any sense) and We are going to be meeting up in 2 months or 1 month at the mall or something, and if that works out well we are going to go to an amusement park. How can I be less awkward and try to get close with her again if I don't know anything about her anymore and she doesn't know anything about me either?? I also don't want to seem too clingy, because when we used to be bffs in all the other years I was always tooo clingy and she would always want a break from me. I feel like me and her are also meant to be friends forever (kinda) because we were friends in kindergarten, first grade, third grade, fourth grade, sixth grade (kinda), and in 7th grade (which was this year) we were in separate classes and kinda just stopped talking to eachother, but we are chatting on hangouts now, but she doesn't really seem like she likes me (not in a weird way like in the friend way only). Please help! 🙂 thank you!
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
(PLZ READ ALL THANK U 🙂)
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
⤴️
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
(Forgot to mention 5th grade 🙂 )
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
:/
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
Aaanyone?
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behappy8
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3 years, 7 months ago by behappy8
just be yourself if they don't like you its not your problem
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
@behappy8 ok thanks ill try 🙂 wish me luck 😬
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obieeggs
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3 years, 7 months ago by obieeggs
this happened to me to. just be yourself. talk to them. tell them how you feel
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Xxpuffish
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3 years, 7 months ago by Xxpuffish
I actually understand this because I lost a friend and it ended badly but I still have to see her sometimes even though it happened in the past couple months it still feels like it’s been forever. My advice is to be yourself don’t dive into stress when meeting your friend. There’s a lot of feelings that may come back up but starting small is always the best starting place I hope this helped!
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madebyJ
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3 years, 7 months ago by madebyJ
@Xxpuffish ok thanks! 🙂 😄
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cactusgirl
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3 years, 7 months ago by cactusgirl
Just start with a big hi, and try to be enthusiastic so she knows u missed her, and try referencing to things that you know about her, and honestly if you guys were bffs you should fall back into ur friendship pretty fast, at least that’s what happened w me and my BFF. Try to be playful and remember that you want to be friends with her and that she probably wants to be friends too. Good luck, you got this!
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MoonShad0w
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3 years, 7 months ago by MoonShad0w
- be enthusiastic- bring up things in the past - mention things that they liked, and asked if it's changed - ask about their family - ask about school Don't force Convo, read their body language, and I'm sure they are feeling nervous too. 🙂 |
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 7 months ago by GenMalucci
Honestly... I’m bad at social stuff, however, I have my tricks. I suggest bringing a really unique bracelet for her
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