I RLLY NEED HELP
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12345puppy
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3 years, 9 months ago by 12345puppy
Right so, I'm just going to get right into this. I'm scared. My parents haven't spoken to each other for 5 days except once to argue. Me and my brother are rlly scared and don't know what to do. I have a feeling that they want to divorce but I rlly don't want them to. I mean who want divorced parents at the age of 10? If anyone has anything to help PLZ TELL ME. Anything is appreciated. I just so t know what to do. 💔😰 Like I said. Any help plz |
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Chaty_Chun
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3 years, 9 months ago by Chaty_Chun
Hey. Dont know much about parents and stuff, tbh one are ok. But I’m here for you. If you need to talk or rant or anything I’m here
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Chaty_Chun
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3 years, 9 months ago by Chaty_Chun
@1234puppy
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Chaty_Chun
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3 years, 9 months ago by Chaty_Chun
@12345puppy
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12345puppy
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3 years, 9 months ago by 12345puppy
Ok thank you but I don't rlly think that it is normal for married adults not to talk for 5 day but ok @Chaty_Chun
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Chaty_Chun
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3 years, 9 months ago by Chaty_Chun
@12345puppy It’s not at least i dont think so. But you never know they might just be really good at the silent treatment it doesn’t mean that they are getting a divorce or anything. Until the day actually does stay positive. I’m here for you . 😇 |
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Mhetland34
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3 years, 9 months ago by Mhetland34
Just because they aren’t taking for a extended period of time does not guarantee divorce. Maybe they are just taking a break and need some space. I would worry about it and if nothing changes for a few days I would talk to them about it
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im-a-dog
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3 years, 9 months ago by im-a-dog
I think it might be a good idea to talk to your parents (or just one of them) about how it makes you feel. It won’t necessarily make them talk to each other, but that should make them consider how their actions affect you and your brother. Maybe they can even explain why they’re not talking? You could also consider talking to a teacher you trust, or if you have a counselor at school. Your parents might divorce or stay married, but either way it’s going to alright. It’s okay to be scared, it’s okay to be sad, it’s okay to be upset and whatever feelings you might have. And, if nothin else makes you feel better, my parents got divorced when I was 10 and I’ve made it into adulthood despite that 🤷♀️🙃 |
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crafter83
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3 years, 9 months ago by crafter83
Maybe ask the one you are closest to what’s going on; in a mature, non manipulative way. Not saying you are that way, cause you seem pretty nice.I just have experience with kids and know asking things in a manipulative way never goes well. I’m sorry you are going through this, I hope things turn out well ❤️ |
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stormii
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3 years, 9 months ago by stormii
My parents argue a lot (they're not married), so I understand what you're going through! If you feel close to your parents (or one of them), bring up your feelings. Do it during a quiet, relaxed time, like when you're getting ready for bed. Try not to ask "Are you going to divorce?" but bring up something like "I'm worried about ____". This will make it nonconfrontational and easier to answer 😊 Also, try to be there for your brother, chances are, he's thinking the same things as you. Be nice to him, and ask him how he's feeling, be a good listener. Just a reminder that even if your parents do divorce (I'm not saying that they are), everything will get better. It may be rocky for a while, but everything will turn out alright in the end. If you ever need any help, please reach out to me, I would love to help your with anything or just listen to anything you have to say. I am here for you ❤️ |
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12345puppy
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3 years, 9 months ago by 12345puppy
@Chaty_Chun, @Mhetland34 , @im-a-dog , @crafter83 and @stormii THANK YOU SOO MUCH FOR ALL THE AMAZING ADVICE. I FEEL MUCH BETTER NIW HAVING PEOPLE TO TALK TO. I RLY APPRECIATE IT. U GUYS ARE THE BEST❤️
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kmmorell
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3 years, 9 months ago by kmmorell
Like all adults and marriages... sometimes you need a break. They can def. still love eachother but sometimes... YOU NEED SPACE. and if you are really worried about it... sit down and talk with them. If you don't think it's your "business" to get involved.... it is... it's your family. My parents used to have some straining times where they would just 1-word answer eachother and it would be snippish. Sometimes you don't get along and the other one is being petty and won't let up. I would talk to them and figure things out.
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naiyah
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3 years, 9 months ago by naiyah
@12345puppy Helping around and acting calm will help! Just show love and help out ur brother! He is probably scared too! I can talk as well! ❤️
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mstro23
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3 years, 9 months ago by mstro23
It's okay. I know what it feels like, my parents don't talk to each other either. All they do is yell at each other. If you ever need to talk I am here.
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1aesthetic
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3 years, 9 months ago by 1aesthetic
its okay. the same thing happened to me about a year ago my parent started fighting over little things then they got divorced but now i realized it wasn't that bad because their both happier and thats all i wanted. so hopefully this didn't sound rude bc im not very good a making thing sound nice but if you ever need anyone to talk to then here i am. hopefully things get better for you! 😊
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IzzyG21
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3 years, 9 months ago by IzzyG21
Hi I totally know what you are going through and it 100% is a horrible experience. In my personal experience I would let the parents let it take its course bc if they weren’t meant to be they weren’t meant to be yk. If they do end up getting a divorce there will be lawyers and people who will make decisions like who has the full custody of you and your brother. Anyway for now I would just ice out them arguing bc listening will make everything worse for you. If you have any questions or just need someone to talk to pls message me I have a ton of experience with this stuff bc I am still going through it and it started when I was 2 1/2 and now I am 13 so I can definitely help you. Good luck and I wish you and your family the best❤️
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12345puppy
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3 years, 9 months ago by 12345puppy
@IzzyG21 thanks so much that made me feel a ton better. I hope things turn out better for u too
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IzzyG21
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3 years, 9 months ago by IzzyG21
@12345puppy no problem and remember everything happens for a reason and there is light at the end of every rainbow ❤️
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