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Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv hey i had toxic friends and if u still do DUMP THEMMM plz or u can just vent ab them lol
cam44 Professional	3 years, 10 months ago by cam44 omg don't even get me started on toxic friends 😤🤚 i used to have a friend who called me her best friend but personally i don't think of anyone as my best friend, i don't like the idea of it, seems kinda hurtful, but anyway i have best friends, not a single best friend. i told her this many times but she didn't listen. she was very controlling and made be feel bad about myself and all of the opportunities i got for all of my hard work while she got none because she simply didn't care about work. she also got mad when i hung out with other friends without inviting her, she had to be with me all the time weather she knew the person or not, but it was very one sided. she would keep secrets from me and hangout with people all the time without me. i didn't mind about the hanging out with others though because i understand boundaries. it got very bad, she ruined several of my pervious friendships because she would lie about them to me and say bad things, i always believed her, she was a very good liar. the point i had enough was when she somehow got into all of my social media accounts, insta, snap, EVERYTHING. she saw that i called one of my super good friends ONE of my best friends and that made her snoop throughout all of my things. she would open snaps or post things, i had no clue she was doing this so i was super confused on why my other friends were questioning why i left them on open and stuff. long story short i figured out it was her and decided i was done with her. there has been serval times where she has begged for me to be her friend again but i have stood my ground and said no. once she realized i was completely done with her she started to spread rumors about me but tbh i don't care because i know they aren't true and people around me know they aren't either because they don't fit my character. that was a lot but that's my story with the most toxic friend i ever had lol, if anyone needs advice on how to leave a toxic friendship or relationship lmk! i will always being willing to support!
Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv @cam44 omg ik right
Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv ok so heres 1 of my many strorys ... so me and my "friends" were all like hanging out in a church event and i met up with the first one and we played on the games and stuff then the secont one came along and we hung out for like A MINUTE and they were like gunna leave together to do something and WHERE GOING TO COME BACK but as u know they DINT and i was depressed for the whole time and then i spotted them with SOMEBODY ELSE not even acting like i existed my dad saw how sad i looked and he bought me a hot chocklet he knew they were toxic before me i told them at school ab it but the 1. pushed it off 2 continue to "roast" me 3. they ignored me oh if i could tell my non confident self they was TOXIC

PugCakePop Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by PugCakePop I had a toxic friend in 3rd grade She never really used to care about me unless she wanted something. For example even back then i was really good at drawing. She would be soo sweet to me when she wanted something like a drawing. I would always do it for her, because she was one of my first friends. She was a really good liar and pretty narcissistic. She would brag about things that at the time i believed, like she would say her parents got her 3 huge gifts everyday. She just lied all the time and she was also controlling, i could never play with other people. All she wanted to do was sit on the bench during recess and gossip. I wanted to play. She was one of those girls, you know? She was also friends with this other girl. She was very shy, quiet, kind of a crybaby. A little chubby. I was kind of cold to her at first but she was pretty sweet, and i warmed up to her. The toxic friend would constantly manipulate/be rude to/control her. She was defenseless, she had an extremely shy nature and she couldnt stand up for herself. So the toxic girl continued to manipulate both of us. She would put me down a lot. Once, i was nervous about some stuff that i dont really remember, and for some reason i asked both of the girls if i had been mean to them/bullied them in any way/hurt them. The other sweet, shy girl said no even though i was a little mean to her when i first met her. Then i asked the toxic friend, and she, and i quote, "yeah you did sometimes." I was actually shocked. I always listened to her, always did anything she wanted, always was nice to her and stuck with her even when i didnt want to. So eventually my mom noticed something was off and sat me down to talk about it. She told me to distance myself from her, find some new friends, and stand up for myself if needed. So slowly i stopped being her friend and the next year she had moved away. Its pretty old, 4 years ago, and i am a lot stronger and smarter now, but i just thought i'd share (:
PugCakePop Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by PugCakePop And there are a lot more but im pretty sure you dont need me to rant any more
Firecorn Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Firecorn Well I have a sorta toxic friend, she’s still really nice and she has good intentions so I don’t plan to drop her but here my rant: So my friend, we’ll call her Diana. so Diana loves my bracelets and other jewelry and she always wants me to make her one. Some times I say sure and sometimes I say that I don’t have any time but get this she never wears the one I do make for her 🙁 The when I have softball when we are warming up I if she wants to be partners in the next game, she’ll say sure but when we get there she’s with someone else and is just like sorry I promised them I would go with them and she’s only my partner when we carpool to the game and she just like if I have to 🙄 But other than that she’s super nice 👍
IzzyG21 Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by IzzyG21 I have a toxic friend and I want to dump her but idrk how to tho. I have bad anxiety when it comes to this kinda stuff so it is hard for me to do it but I will later today or tomorrow. So if anyone has any tips pls help me. Also idk if this makes her toxic but she used to ghost me when I would want to talk to her but then when she wants to talk she will blow up my phone until I answer. Also she would make me do her homework and she would never say thank you or I owe it to you. Anyway the point is that I kinda need help telling her that I don't want to be friends with her so if you have any tip pls help (:
indaco Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by indaco @IzzyG21 telling her that you don't want to be friends anymore is hard, but you should stop doing her homework right now or fill it with huge mistakes, have some fun! When you'll feel ready to do it, whenever she starts blowing up your phone with notifications block her immediately for a period of time of an hour. If she gets mad tell her that “Sorry, but it's really annoying” or something. I hope this helps, but I am not an expert. I know that it's easier said than done, but you should really try the first thing (stop doing her homework)
Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv @IzzyG21 ghost her and as the other person said DO THAT ik u might be like but what IF..... NOOOOOOOOO she dosent have the right to make u sad or guilty u need better friends and plz do block her ❤️ ❤️
IzzyG21 Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by IzzyG21 @Heidiv thx and I did block her when I got to my phone she does dissever this thank you all for all the help 😁

Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv @Fierecom ok ok... dont lash out on her but instead bring it up and if u have truble getting her to be ur partener then talk to another friend or somebody who doesent have a partener if they would like to be parteners BOOM instant friend and then if shes mad ab u having a new partener bring up what she did to u ❤️ ❤️
Basilology Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Basilology I have a toxic friend and her jokes just get too far. She's also very annoying and brags a lot. She always needs people to know if she's hurt, or she won something, and makes it so she's basically better than everyone else. She also forces me to give her hugs and thinks I'm not a good friend for not wanting to give hugs. She says my pets are stupid. She's mean to other people. I want to take debate for next year and she said that was stupid. Then a few weeks later she says she's going to take debate because it's stupid and she is stupid. Back up a month or two and she was cheering about how she won the school spelling bee. She won't let me play with other people and even had a mini fight about who I was partners with at PE. I have a lot more stories, but only if you want to hear them. I don't know how to stop being friends with her, so any advice will be great.
Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv @Basiology ok ok ..... i personally would one make sure im confident in coming up to her btw she can not throw u around like a toy or something or a servant to make her look GOOD in front of others PERIOD. ❤️ and u should not be friends with her bc if she s just gunna be showin u off like a trophy then DROP THEM and make SURE she knows shes not better than ANYONE not in a mean way btw HOPE THIS HELLPS !! ❤️ ❤️
Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv @Basilology ur help is on top i @ u wrong srry
Basilology Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Basilology @Heidiv I'm an introvert and don't really know how to stop being "friends" with her. She get VERY easily offended and needs to make everything about her feelings.
Deer-Teeth Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Deer-Teeth I had a toxic friend and I was so sad to leave her. We had been friends since kindergarten and had been through everything together. She has goldenhar syndrome where it deforms her jaw, spine, and eyesight. this wasn't an issue and she was beautiful!!! I even dated her and thought one day I would marry her because of the connection we had together. I was there through all her surgeries, through her breakups, i defended her against the kids at our school, and anytime we were in public i made sure to keep her insecurities in mind and made her enjoy going out. it was great!! But then middle school hit, and that's when being mentally ill or disabled in any way was trendy, and she faked a lot of mental illnesses and used her goldenhar to manipulate others. She claimed she was bipolar, and how one minute she was happy and the next she was sad, said she had multiple personalities (there was the angry side of her, the depressed, etc). It made it hard to be friends with her. in middle school, she atually didn't experience a whole lot of bullying, it was mainly aimed at what she was doing by lying about a lot of things she didn't even understand and getting mad when people told her otherwise. I made 2 other friends my entire middle school years because I stuck with her!!! But i was okay with that, i loved her and i cared about her and it was suppose to be us against the world But then highschool hit and i had to move, I was in the same district but a different ZIP code, so we couldn't stay together. Her older brother went to the school i was going to tho because he's very disabled and can't do anything himself. I would visit him and he would get really happy to see me!!! it was great even if i couldn't see her but then she lied about a lot of things. A lot. she lied about being r*d and a whole bunch of other stuff, said that her mother was against her and her boyfriend (whom her mom didnt even have, she had her husband and constantly worked there was no room for another relationship and I was very close with her mom, so much so i was told things that shouldn't have been said) was doing things that he shouldn't have against her dads back, and a whole lot of other stuff. She ended up coming to my school!! She said she couldn't stay there because of the one person, which i understand. She tried to get every class she could with me, and when people asked her why she changed schools in the middle of the semester she BRAGGED about being rd. like she was proud of that happening to her. And she spoke about it all the time which made me very uncomfortable!!!!! and her story constantly changed, it was one thing then another then another, and she made claims that I know couldn't have happened because we were together and i got to know her very closely. a little too close. and one day i sat down with her and I was like "did this really happen? what you're telling others isnt what you told me or your mom, whats going on?" because i wanted to make sure she was okay!!! at first i actually believed what happened happened but after while it was clear something was up. then she got mad at me, called me a snake, said that i was attention seeking and that she had never said i lied about my r** (even though that never even happened to me) or ever would and said how horrible i was. So i left her alone, and she messaged me after a month or so, and we were friends again for like 8 months. but then the same thing happened. She called me a snake and kept me from my friends because she had wiggled her way into my social groups, and hung around them 24/7 so i could never check up on them and this was before I had my phone so I couldn't text them. and she constantly misgendered me around everyone. no matter what it was my deadname (that i hadn't gone by since elementary) and my agab, even though she i continuously told her thats not what I go by thats not who i am. then one day she messaged me out of nowhere and said "i think i know why i did all of the things i did" "Zeke im madly in love with you and i was too afraid to admit it" AFTER WE HAD DATED 4 SEPARATE TIMES and i told her to screw off, she ruined everything for me because i called her out for lying about things she shouldn't have (one time claimed she had CANCER!!!!!!!!! NOT OKAY) i was heartbroken after all of this, this was my childhood friend, this was my s/o, this person was my life for who knows how long, and she did that. I'm glad I moved again, even though the reason why broke me, so now I don't have to see her in the hallways, but I still miss her everyday, despite everything that happened. She thought that the world revolved around her when it didn't, and it was my fault for sticking with her for so long but I still feel bad

Elise64 Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Elise64 @Basilology I can kinda relate to the first sentence. So I have a friend who I am very close to and we are in a whole friend group and she kinda used to make jokes that offended me but not that much. The song scars to your beautiful was really important to me and when I brought it up she said it was cringe and it kind of upset me but it’s just her opinion. And she called a few other songs bad but it doesn’t really offend me anymore. But she does make funny jokes sometimes that are mean but it’s rly funny like we do this thing on the playground where we make like an obstacle course and choose different things to use, and I am literally WEAK 😂 I had to do this thing on a bar and I couldn’t do it and she said I had no upper body strength and I was like “yes I know” 😂 and we talk about how annoying some people are lol I’m definitely not thinking about dumping her sometimes she just makes jokes that go a tiny bit too far but she’s not afraid to say what she thinks and I like that even if I find it a little mean sometimes
Ciao Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Ciao I wanted to tell a story but then I realized they are on BraceletBook 💀
Heidiv Bracelet King	3 years, 10 months ago by Heidiv @Ciao u can message me ❤️

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