How to get out of toxic friendships/relationships page 4
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heyppl8976
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3 years, 11 months ago by heyppl8976
@Lovelegos I’m about to go to my choir class and then after orchestra I won’t be on BB until around 1:40 for me, which is basically like an hour and 40 minutes or somewhere around that(:
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Lovelegos
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3 years, 11 months ago by Lovelegos
alright sounds good
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scarhead12
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3 years, 11 months ago by scarhead12
MOVE TO AUSTRAILIA
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scarhead12
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3 years, 11 months ago by scarhead12
ok sry I was trying to be funny but srsly just stop being friends with them. I was bullied through tik tok and I had to stop being friends with this girl 😐 I thought she was nice too until she did that, she only did that because she didn;t know I had tik tok 🙁
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ALYSSACHIL
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3 years, 11 months ago by ALYSSACHIL
Get out as fast as you can. I just got out of one, and even though I’m only 14 the relationship did a lot of damage and I ended up in therapy for a bit. My best advice is end it as soon as you can, and idk if what I did was right, but I didn’t tell the guy what he did wrong bc I knew he’d try to gaslight me and manipulate me about it. So I recommend just saying you lost feelings, or you can tell them what they did wrong if it’ll give you closure. But trust me, the longer you stay the more damage is done to you.
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ALYSSACHIL
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3 years, 11 months ago by ALYSSACHIL
And I just read your comment about what you said abt the suicide threat. Honestly, they’re probably just doing it to force you to stay. You are not in charge of their life, you have to look at for yourself sometimes. So protect yourself and try to get out. If they were going to do it they would’ve done it already. Im not the best at advice but I really hope this helped, nobody deserves to go through that
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indaco
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3 years, 11 months ago by indaco
Not trying to be brutal, but remember that you are NOT his therapist and that you are NOT responsible in any way of his problems (because you are not his bully)! YOUR FEELINGS are worthy too! He has already lied once, he will do it again. If he tried again to talk about the "kms" stuff, tell him straight in his face that this is toxic and manipulative behaviour. If he understands it and changes (highly unlikely) it's ok, but if he doesn't, remember this: he doesn't deserve your time! He doesn't RESPECT your feelings and your affection! He has no excuses. If he doesn't acknowledge his manipulative behaviour after you told them about this, it means that he has been a liar all the time and that he is actually manipulative. He has no excuses to treat you like this
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indaco
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3 years, 11 months ago by indaco
Since you already knew what to do, I gave you reasons to do it instead 💪🏻 HE is ruining YOUR mental heath. Leaving this situation is NOT egoistic, it's called self care! Remember this!
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