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PSA: Pro life vs Pro choice and how to be respectful

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Firecorn Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Firecorn @DISCLAIMER This is not at ALL hate to pro life/ pro choice, but i just felt a few things need to be said: Thoughts on opinions and what to do when someone is being disrespectful: > Your opinion is YOUR opinion, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. even tho some might not agree with it > if someone is being rude to you or another- do not make it worse by saying how wrong their opinion is, just say something like: Hey i may not agree with you, but i am kindly asking you to at the very least respect the fact that i am entitled to my own opinion as you are to yours- and if that doesn't work, talk to a mod > PLEASE do not make things worse by getting into fights in the chat or in comments, just let it be and talk to a mod if it gets really out of hand > not everyone is going to agree with you and that's ok! Negative comments: >If someone is being very rude in the comments just reply in that comment something positive and uplifting, then talk to a mod or that person about how rude they were being >please refrain from posting negative comments on a pattern you don't agree with- just pass it by because your negative comment may effect someones day and that is not cool > if you don't like what someone posted as it was mean and/or offensive maybe just message them privately as you could lead to a whole fight >posting and sometimes responding to negative comments can make things worse and we want to make the world better! My personal opinion: My opinion is that unborn babies deserve the chance to live however, sometimes when it was unplanned or unintentional, that can be really hard for the person in question. If something happened that could make the baby's life harder (like a medical problem) I personally think that it would be ok as the baby does not deserve to live with that burden. If the medical condition however, was something that is not as serious and would not add as many complications to the child, it is the mother's choice to think what would be best for the child. In conclusion: >Please respect other's opinion and note that not everyone will agree with yours >It's the mother's choice but all people deserve that chance >medical complications can be hard on the parents and the child >Everyone is entitled to their opinion on the matter and mine personally is neither or both Please be respectful when you reply to something! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
GenMalucci Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by GenMalucci Hey! I think your opinion is valid and I read everything you said! Personally, and this is how I was raised. I Believe that the lives of the unborn matter. Even if you didn’t mean to get pregnant, you are now and it was a willful choice. I believe that the baby inside of the womb deserves a chance. I don’t stand for controlling people, I just think that the unborn deserve a chance. Inside the womb the baby can hear your voice, they start to love you. You gave them life and they love you for it! Now, before you get upset with me 😉 this is how I was raised and I have a lot of reasons for why these babies should get a chance, especially if you took the risk. I live in a big family, every time my parents have another child I come to tears with how blessed I am to have a little brother added to the family. I have cried for every sibling under myself when they are born, they are a blessing! It’s a miracle! There are some mothers who write letters to their aborted babies, apologizing for taking their life. On the contrary, even if it’s just a clump of cells, is it living? Yes, it’s not dead. Technically it’s ALIVE meaning if you abort it’s taking the life. If that makes sense. Thanks for reading! I would love to see what others have to say! 😊
GenMalucci Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by GenMalucci Just think, your mother could have aborted you but she chose life, she chose to keep you!
GenMalucci Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by GenMalucci There are also people who can’t have children, I know them in my own personal life. They become devastated. So, maybe, if you put your baby up for adoption, someone else can take them in, love them, give them an amazing life. And I know that some people are sent out of foster care without a forever family and my heart goes out to them and the unborn!

GenMalucci Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by GenMalucci Oh, and the “My body my choice” I think that it’s a fair-ish argument. But the baby inside you should have the same choice.
Hazel23 Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Hazel23 Hey I agree with everything you’ve said. On any pattern where people are fighting I’ve posted this.... Hey guys! Before you add a comment think about this.. 1. Is what I am going to say change someone else’s mind? 2. Is what I am going to say hurt someone or be mean to them? 3. Is what I’m going to say worth an argument? 4. Is what I’m going to say worth hurting someone 5. Is what I’m going to say need to be said on a bracelet website? Share your opinion, but don’t argue with anyone about it, and share respectively. A lot of work goes into these patterns and if you made a pattern about something you believe, would you want it to get horrible ratings? Would you want people being mean? Just think about that and have a nice day. Cute pattern btw! Idk how much it will help but I’m hoping people will stop and think about if what they are saying is necessary.
loonybin Professional	3 years, 11 months ago by loonybin Hey there, i think some of the points made here have been good but i would like to add on my opinon as well if thats alright. My personal opinon is that if i were to become pregnant i would absolutely terminate. i am disgusted by the idea of having anything in my body that i cant get rid of immediately(one reason why i wont get an implanted iud or birth control, i use nuva ring becasue i can take it out whenever i want). I also can barely financially support myself let alone a child. as far as i know, there is no medical reason why i should not carry out the pregnancy, i just do not want to. and if the option to terminate was taken away from me, i would likely never engage in acts that result in pregnancy again. (and as humans, we invented condoms/birth control/termination/etc for the sole purpose of having control over our own bodies) I believe that no one has the right to use someone else's body without their permission. simiilar to the way you cannot force someone to donate an organ to someone who may die without it, you cannot force someone to carry an embryo in their uterus even though that embryo will die without it. I think that while people absolutely have the right to the opinion of being pro-life and can even promote that opinion, there needs to be a separation between that opinion and state and federal law. i don't think that the pro-life opinion should affect the legality of choices others make or the ability to safely terminate a pregnancy. similarly, i dont think the government should ever force a woman to have an abortion due to medical or financial status. the important thing is that those that become pregnant have the choice no matter what the circumstance. that being said, I think that when an abortion is an option there should be comprehensive education on all the options available (abortion, adoption, etc) for the person who has to make the choice.
eva-seria Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by eva-seria Yeah, some of the things in the comments section for both kinds of patterns I feel like aren’t really constructive or helpful at all. Immediately diving into insults I think will push the other person away from considering your points, and make your whole side look bad. I haven’t been engaging just because I’m not here to pick fights with teenagers yknow? I guess I may as well say my opinion on the topic though. I agree with @loonybin. I am pro choice. I think that if someone decides that they need an abortion that they should be able to get one in a safe environment. If someone decides that they wouldn’t want to get one, they should be able to get help if they need it. Someone’s right to get an abortion doesn’t hinder your right to not get an abortion.
Isla-Vsco Skiller	3 years, 11 months ago by Isla-Vsco personally i am pro-life i believe all lives matter even babies. god made birth and pregnancy an amazing thing to keep up population and lives of others! because if you do not want to get pregnant take the right pro-cations not to. your mom let you come into this world and she could've decided not to you don't want that to be your child do you ? but i do not think it should be illegal because that will result in unsafe home abortions. i kind of agree with " my body my choice " but at some point its not your body its a whole other humans body ! a whole different person waiting for you to give birth and give them a safe life ! and if you do ended getting pregnant and don't want to be the better option than aborting the baby is putting them up for adoption , an orphanage . or giving them to a god mother or to a family member
kmmorell Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by kmmorell I'm for pro-life, however I don't judge. Sometime people think they do what's best, and you know what? We can't really change that. I understand where people are scared and they don't know what to do, and so they go through with that. I know the concept "My body my choice" and thats totally fine. But at 5 weeks the baby develops a heartbeat... so I think people need to be aware that they are carrying a life inside of them. This is a very controversial concept. If abortion is the only way to go, it shouldnt be late into the pregnancy... I think atleast having the baby and putting it up for adoption is so much better. It can give them a life you couldn't provide otherwise. My parents couldn't have children. And lots of parents have fertility problems and I know a lot of people are so thankful adoption is a choice. I am adopted, so. I feel like that plays a big role into my belief.
Ciao Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Ciao I am pro-choice. While I think getting an abortion unless you absolutely need one is wrong, but support the right to get one. Everyone should have the right to their body. "My body, my choice" Just believe you wouldn't do something, doesn't mean you need to take away other's rights to do it. Also on a side note. The way we view life is very weird. Defining life as having a heartbeat, makes ants and other insects the right to live. So killing ants and insects should be against the law? What about killing and eating animals? Maybe its only to human life, I don't know.

Jdog12525 Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Jdog12525 @Ciao dang you be speaking facts in your second paragraph
indaco Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by indaco Pro-choice. No need to discuss this. Stop controlling us
Ciao Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Ciao Forgot another point- We don't require people to donate blood even if someone could die from it. We don't require someone to donate their organs, even if somone could die without it. We shouldn't force people to give birth. I understand if you believe abortions are wrong, no one is requiring you to get one. If someone you know wants to get one, you can convince them not to! Everyone should have the option. Thank you for listening to my TED Talk.
CakeCup Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by CakeCup I don't quite have an opinion on this yet. I really need to sit down at some point and just think about it. However, I still do want to say something. I really appreciate how calm and collected everyone on here is being. No one is arguing or shouting at one another that they are wrong. I wish that everyone could be as understanding and open as the people that have written on here so far. With that being said, I want to say "Thank you". ❤️ 😄
loonybin Professional	3 years, 11 months ago by loonybin I have a question for those who are pro-life... I know some believe that abortion should not be allowed unless it is a medically necessary procedure, this question is for those(not those who believe abortions should NEVER be allowed no matter what). The question I have is: would you consider extreme psychological harm/potential TW su*cidal thoughts as a valid reason to obtain an abortion? and why/why not?
Godluvsu Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Godluvsu I am pro life because I agree that every being no matter the size deserves the basic right to live. ❤️ and i also agree with you, respect is needed. ❤️

Deuken Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by Deuken I’m pro-life
riley_fxX Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by riley_fxX im pro-choice bc i would never want to force a women to give birth, or have anyone force me
crafter83 Bracelet King	3 years, 11 months ago by crafter83 I think people shouldn’t comment “pro choice ❤️“on pro life patterns or “pro life ❤️” on pro choice patterns. I see a lot of people doing it and I don’t understand why. Everyone would find it weird if I wrote “agnostic ❤️“ on all the Christian patterns, so this shouldn’t be any different

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