How do you know when you are over someone?
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BandGeek22
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3 years, 11 months ago by BandGeek22
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eva-seria
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3 years, 11 months ago by eva-seria
I did a lot of journaling when I was dealing with that. It doesn’t even have to be a pretty journal or aesthetically pleasing, I mostly word-vomited in a dollar store sketchbook.I listened to a lot of music and my playlist from that is basically me finding songs that encapsulate how I’m feeling. I still have that playlist and it did help to see how the songs I gravitated to evolved from “I need you I need you don’t leave me” to “Things didn’t work out, but that’s okay and I’m better by myself anyway”. I don’t know your situation so I don’t want to infodump about mine and make it all about me, yknow? I have family I can talk to as well, so if that’s an option that’s also good. Good luck, it’ll get better |
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eva-seria
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3 years, 11 months ago by eva-seria
Wait I just realized that didn’t answer your question at all. Real answer is that it’s different for everyone, but I’d say it’s when you accept what happened and find peace with it. Not beating yourself up over not being upset over the situation. |
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BandGeek22
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3 years, 11 months ago by BandGeek22
@eva-seria thank you so much!!!! This helps a lot 🙂
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eva-seria
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3 years, 11 months ago by eva-seria
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Firecorn
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3 years, 11 months ago by Firecorn
Well, this fall, i realized that not everyone's gonna like you, people will think you are weird and no matter how hard you try, some just won't accept you. After i realized that, i realized that i no longer felt the need to try and be friends with this one girl that kept pretending to be my friend, then basically tare me down. I have other friends who love me, and she just wasn't one of them 🙂
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heyppl8976
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3 years, 11 months ago by heyppl8976
Honestly you know you’re over someone when you feel like you aren’t dependent on them. You’ll stop thinking about the memories over time, and slowly you’ll begin to find other people that make you happy. You’ll also know when you aren’t crying about them anymore!!! You won’t care about them anymore, if that makes sense(: don’t be afraid to message me and you can tell me all about this I’m here to listen 🙂
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BandGeek22
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3 years, 11 months ago by BandGeek22
@heyppl8976 awww thank you!!
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nev_m_07
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3 years, 11 months ago by nev_m_07
I’ve never been through a relationship but I have had a few crushes. I think for me, I knew I was over him when I started seeing him as annoying but other factors can play in, as they did for me. Our schedules changed and we went from having almost all of our classes together to having none. If the person you like is in a relationship with someone else, you also might stop caring, like I did. It’s honestly different for everyone and even though I thought I was over him, I think I’m having feelings for him again. Feelings will come and go but it really depends. Just look for clues like this in the person you like when you start doubting your feelings. Hope this helps
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kmmorell
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3 years, 11 months ago by kmmorell
When you can finally make peace with yourself and let it go. Also when you can look at them and not have anything bad to say or feel sad or something.
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