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Addie_bug
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4 years ago by Addie_bug
@workmanha oh my goodness it is really similar! and thanks for the advice and lol ur good to rant.
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4 years ago by Addie_bug
@fuzzydogs8 okay!!! thanks!!
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4 years ago by fuzzydogs8
Yep🙂
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4 years ago by xc
My advice is just to find something that clears your mind. Whenever I’m stressed I always go on a run that day because it just lets my mind wander so I can forget about all of my worries and it’s like a fresh start. Also if you ever need someone to talk to you can always message me whenever and I can give you advice or just listen cause it is good to talk to someone. I am in 7th grade too and school can get hard and especially with the virus but I think the people who feel down aren’t incapable of being happy, the thing that make them happy just aren’t happening now. I hope that this helps and that things get better🙂
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4 years ago by Addie_bug
@xc tysm for the advice!!!! 😊 🙂
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4 years ago by xc
@Addie_bug no problem! I hope every thing gets better!!!
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4 years ago by Addie_bug
@xc thanks! And me too. 😄 😉 😄
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4 years ago by Moosey
I know what you mean. Sometimes you try so hard to hold onto the good friends you have. I don't want to upset you or make you worried, but some people are only meant to be in your life for a certain amount of time, or a season. Maybe allowing yourself to close the metaphorical doors with these friends will open up new doors for you in the future. It can be extremely hard to handle change. I have struggled with it my whole life. But we have to remember that sometimes change is good and it has a purpose. I am in no way saying that you need to give up these friends, but maybe your loss of them will be something you can work through and become a better person because of it. I've lost basically all of my friends. I don't text hardly anyone. I lost my best friend of 10 years in 2020 and its been really hard. But because I lost all of my friends I was able to focus more on what is important in my life right now. Healing. Academic success. Looking forward more than looking back. I have gained a ton of freedom from the loss of all of my friends. I feel the best I've ever felt in a really long time. That doesn't mean I don't get lonely or sad. It just means life looks different. And different is not at all bad. This is a growth process and maybe it's time to feel the "growing pains" of grief or other feelings you may have so you can become a better person or maybe learn more about yourself.
No matter what you end up doing, know that you always have support here from multiple people, myself included. I hope that no matter what happens, you find happiness and that you grow through the situations you're in. You're so much stronger than you know and no matter what, you got this! I hope that maybe this long-winded explanation or whatever it is helps.
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4 years ago by Addie_bug
@Moosey yeah.... thanks for the advice. 🙂
nev_m_07
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4 years ago by nev_m_07
I understand the situation. I went to the same elementary school from kindergarten to thirh
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4 years ago by nev_m_07
I went through the same thing when I went to middle school. My friends and I promised to talk every day but our differing schedules just didn’t allow for that and slowly we grew more and more apart. And even though that was hard, I realized i had to make new friends. I still talk to my old friends once in a while
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4 years ago by nev_m_07
I still talk to my old friends every once in a while and even though i miss them, i’m so grateful for my new friends who are like sisters to me. We are always there for each other and we always support each other. I’ve gone through the hard, the sad, the funny, the happy, all of it, i’ve gone through it with my friends. Just think about this: friends come and go but sisters are forever. I know that my friendship with my current friends is going to last a long time. I know that we’ve got each other’s backs always. Even through it was hard to make friends at first, it will happen over time and trust me, one day,
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4 years ago by nev_m_07
One day, really soon, you’ll find your sisters too ❤️
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4 years ago by nev_m_07
(Sorry for all the breaks in the message. I kept hitting send on accident 😅)
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4 years ago by Addie_bug
@nev_m_0 thanks a lot for the advice. I really mean it. 🙂 (they where my sisters... and i think they still want to be friends/sisters with me too... im thinking about finishing the year and then getting a variance next year.)
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