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RAVENC
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4 years, 2 months ago by RAVENC
My friend (lily) is really mad at my friends girl friend(Ava and brae) and brae and lily r fighting. They won’t talk to each other, look at each other, they almost threw down too. They put me in the middle and I really don’t want to lose a friend but they said if I don’t pick a side then neither of them will be my friend. They started being jerks to me and spilling some of my most personal secrets at school. What do I do? Pls help
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ellie_15
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4 years, 2 months ago by ellie_15
Hey, I'm sorry that you are going through this. I know that it is hard to accept but it sounds like you are in a toxic friendship with these people. It is not right for them to ask you to choose between them, and really you should not stay friends with them because of that. It is hard to be stuck between people like that and I think the best thing for you to do is remove yourself from the situation. Choosing one over the other will only make things worse in the long run. Things may be rough but you have to believe that it can get better. Hopefully, after the dust settles, they will see that putting you in this situation was wrong and will apologize for it. Good luck to you and I hope it all ends up fine-Ellie |
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2006_Mandy
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4 years, 2 months ago by 2006_Mandy
I think that neither will work out. Based on personal experience whatever friends side you choose the other will get mad and trying to keep both won't work out your friends shouldn't drag you into their problems but many people are like that. What good would choosing which friend you want do you? Wouldn't you prefer a true friend over a "friend" who uses you in their arguments with others?
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-Nobody-
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4 years, 2 months ago by -Nobody-
Friends come and they go. Most of the time there really isn't much to do... I'm sorry about this
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Clairaland
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4 years, 2 months ago by Clairaland
Consider both sides of the fight, if they are spilling your secrets publicly than they shouldn’t be considered “friends.” Make sure you know what you want to do and don’t let them get to you! They probably don’t know what there are losing (:
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Basilology
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4 years, 2 months ago by Basilology
Hi, I sorry you are going through this. See if you could do anything about it, like telling them you can't choose between them. If they still are fighting, I would leave them alone for a while. It seems to stress you out more than it makes you happy. You could play with other friends and see if they could figure it out. I'm sorry I don't have much advice. Basilology |
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ItzMe
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4 years, 2 months ago by ItzMe
Hey I’m sorry that they did that. When people are like this I text them and ask what’s wrong. I know it’s hard but take a break from them. Find friends that won’t do that and try to fix your friendships slowly. Don’t let them abuse your friend ship. Those aren’t real friends and just find comfort in the people closest to you. It’s hard to realize you don’t need toxic people like that in your life. Find something to do. Distract your mind. I hope you feel better and I’m sorry -Sophie
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MKBracelet
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4 years, 1 month ago by MKBracelet
Hey I’m sorry that they are doing that but they don’t sound like good friends to have. In my opinion no good friend should spill your secrets wether or not you lost contact or a fight happened. It’s probably best to just distance yourself from the situation for a bit and then after everything calms down then maybe try to fix your friendship with them since people do make mistake but if they continue to mistreat you then you don’t need people like that anyways. Again I’m sorry that you were put in this since it’s always hard to be in a situation like that and I hope it all works out and you feel better and I also hope this helped if not with the advice then to at least comfort you a bit.
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montecarlo
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4 years, 1 month ago by montecarlo
if either of them wanted to be your friend they wouldn't make u chose. i say u should try to find new friends
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