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kpn
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9 months, 3 weeks ago by kpn
so essentially i just need to scream but here's the dramathere's this girl that i'm super good friends with right? we both dance together and we're super good friends outside of ballet too. we're both pan ace and platonically love each other and say so all the time. and as you expect i think i may have a tiny bit of a crush on her? i'm trying to repress it kinda bc i feel TERRIBLE about it, crushing on a friend never ends well and it makes everything bad. plus, i really value our friendship as it is rn, and i'm so happy to be her friend. i was just realizing how i think i do feel attracted to her differently than i do around my other friends. i just think about her more, want to be around her more, and get more excited to talk to her, be w her, etc. i don't want to have a crush on her bc i don't want to be like that, i feel like that's super crummy of me and i feel really bad about it. we already pretty much act like girlfriends but keep it platonic. i really love her platonically, i just need help with the rest bc it's causing me a fair amount of mental distress. help pls? also feel free to put your drama here and us patrons of bb can help |
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18390648
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9 months, 3 weeks ago by 18390648
Wow. I honestly don’t know what to say. Uhm for advice I honestly am not sure. When did this start??
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kpn
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by kpn
@18390648 we've been friends for about a year but it started about 3 weeks ago or so
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18390648
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by 18390648
Ok so yea I understand how you feel really bad about it…I personally would do nothing as of now and see how life turns out ig?? It’s probably not the best thing to do tho seeing as it’s what I would do lol. I’ll think about this for now and let you know if i have any useful suggestions(:
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kpn
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by kpn
ty bestie
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18390648
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by 18390648
(:
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SheepDog12
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by SheepDog12
PRIM DIES IN HUNGER GAMES HAHAHA SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A PICK ME
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kpn
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by kpn
@SheepDog12 SHE SO ISSSSS LIKE "oh katniss can you pls hug me i'm scaredddd uwu" HUSH CHILD
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savannahjo
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by savannahjo
I have the BIGGEST crush ever on this guy who's older than me. We've dated before but he's super toxic. He did help me through some tough times though and I'm still in love with him. He's dated two of my friends and we're in all the same activities. I'm also really good friends with his brother. I told the guy that I liked him yesterday and he hasn't said anything. I saw him twice today but I literally ran away from him.
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caroliney
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by caroliney
i wanna vent but my biggest fear is someone from my school is secretly lurking on here 😀
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kpn
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by kpn
@savannahjo dang that is quite the predicament, i'll give my 2 cents tho bc i'm nosy. 1, if he's toxic, don't date him. avoid him altogether. any amount of beautiful hair and pretty features can't make up for him being bad to you. you don't deserve that, you deserve someone who would love you well and be your companion along the way. you hear me? don't settle for less! but if he's improving and has recognized that he was toxic, then you may have somewhere to start. it sounds like he's nice enough to you without being toxic, so it shouldn't be awfully hard to just be friends with him. if that can happen, you may just want to see where things lead and let stuff play out, i think. anyways that's what i'd say but also i'm very single so who knows lol
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kpn
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by kpn
@caroliney message me i'm a great therapist hehehe and according to your bio we live in different states anyways so i think you're safe
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savannahjo
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by savannahjo
@kpn thanks for the advice. 🙂 👍 We've started talking a little bit again and he hasn't been rude or make me feel bad yet. Key word yet lol. I think I just need to give it time. We broke up because it wasn't working and we took time off to work on ourselves. My friends aren't very approving but they just want me to be happy.
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kpn
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9 months, 2 weeks ago by kpn
@savannahjo that's good that he's nice! i hope things work out among friends tho, good luck overall!
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illusorymo
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9 months, 1 week ago by illusorymo
I've been on a wild goose chase trying to get a meds refill. my pharmacy closed without any warning and I'm fully out and feel Not great, it's mostly stress. my refill got sent to a pharmacy that doesnt want to fill it and then my doctor's receptionist didnt send the request at all, and the pharmacy it Needs to be at isnt helping. I just finally got to speak to someone this morning and they still Didnt actually send the refill. my doctor's asst just messaged me about it and I told her I needed a specific pharmacy so Im hoping and praying I get a refill soon !
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kpn
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9 months, 1 week ago by kpn
@illusorymo wow that is a whole lot, i hope you're able to get them! is progress being made towards them being at the right place for you?
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illusorymo
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9 months, 1 week ago by illusorymo
@kpn I think so, I'm waiting for the message that my prescription has been filled at the new pharmacy but I'm playing the waiting game and I have no more patience lol, I appreciate the reply!!! < 3
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illusorymo
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9 months, 1 week ago by illusorymo
little update, I got my script filled! everything’s settled : )
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kpn
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9 months, 1 week ago by kpn
@illusorymo hooray!!
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tkd2010
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9 months, 1 week ago by tkd2010
soo i like the boy but even my two bsfs don’t know bc i just haven’t gotten around to telling them (i’m pretty personal abt this stuff irl, even with my friends who i tell everythingggg to). well there’s the big dance in a few months and my bsfs on trying to go on a 3 man. friend 1 w the boy she’s talking to, friend 2 with the boy she was talking to but they stopped bc he got rlly obsessed, and me with one of my closest guy friends (since we’re all friends). we’d be going as friends ofc. but there’s already someone who i think is gonna ask me bc his friends keep trying to pmo w him but i don’t like him like that 😭. andddd i literally have the fattest crush on this other boy and i’m not tryna give him the wrong idea
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