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sourapples

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1 year, 2 months ago by sourapples

here’s the tea:

sourapples

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1 year, 2 months ago by sourapples

so abt like a year ago this girl named N dated this guy named C. her bff M was dating Cc and they lasted for like a month and then broke up. then C and N also broke up and N dated Cc (her bffs ex). they were super mad at each other for a long time (at least M was) and then N and C broke up. some time passes and C is dating someone from another school and then he actually cheats on her with another girl named P. and then he cheats on P with a girl well call A. Now A, P, and the first girl (well call her k) don’t know about each other. And then c dances with S and they go to a school activity together. So this guy, C was dating three or four girls at the same time! A was also at the school activity so she saw C and S and was so sad and S knew about P but thought C and P had broken up and it was a huge mess but that’s the tea ☕️

Hylia224

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1 year, 2 months ago by Hylia224

@sourapples that sounds like a soap opera actually

sourapples

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1 year, 2 months ago by sourapples

lol yea

violasrule

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1 year, 2 months ago by violasrule

so i have this one friend, let's call her M. i sit next to her at lunch. See now our table has a sort of "division" between it, all sorts of different people at it but we're all kinda? friends? like we get along ig but my closer friends are definitely the right half of the table, which is where I sit. it's also the primarily gay half bc 2/3 of us are not straight in that half lolll but the left half, they're all straight and some of them im not rly even friends with. M sits on the left half and talks with some of those people about her man n stuff like that, you know, regular gossip. She and I became really close in 8th grade, we had gym together and were practically inseparable. Our birthdays are literally a day apart, and we both just UNDERSTOOD each other. but i had one thing that i can never tell like anyone except for people that i actually trust: i am, in fact, aroace

oh boy

so yesterday, our right side gay half of the table was just talking. The kid sitting to my right, I'm not really friends with him, but we talk to each other sometimes. He's better friends with the other 3 gay ppl at my table. so it's cool. but he actually didn't know that one of the girls there, one of our friends, was bi, so then everyone's like talking about it. M overhears this, turns to the girl who's bi, and goes "WAIT UR BI I DIDNT KNOW" and the girl responded "yeah i am" and M said "oh that makes a lot of sense actually"

also extra lore: my best friend (she's lesbian) has actually had a crush on M for the past 6+ months and so we've been tryna figure out if M is actually like lesbian or bi or anything but we never even rly figured out if she supports lgbtq+

uhm but then M asked me if i was gay and like i mean she seemed okay with lgbtq+ in general and like her reaction to the other girl being bi was normal so instead of doing what i SHOULD have done and lied, i went "well im not gay im actually aroace tho"
and she's like "I don't know what that means"
and so i explain
and she interjects every so often saying stuff like "that's not real"
"i dont believe you"
"that's not true"
"that's weird" (to which i said "i know" because honestly, the amount of people pleasing i do all the time to be friends with M is absurd)
like i literally even told her that i've never actually had a crush (i've had your like aroace type crush-y not a crush at all thing which is hard to explain but iykyk) and she didnt even respond to that

then she just turned to talk to her other friends that im not rly friends with at the table like nothing happened. she's probably gonna forget all about it. either that or just start ignoring me for the rest of my life because i dont fall in love.

i got up and for the remaining 5 minutes of lunch went to sit with one of my closest friends (not my best friend but like she's rly close) and she's pan/ace and i explained to her what happened (also she sits at a different lunch table with one of her new friends most of the time because there's like competition for space at our lunch table and i feel bad abt the fact that she can't sit there, but i still like text her during lunch) but now imma just stay over there for lunch because i no longer feel comfortable at that table.

because literally nobody else at the table heard what happened, like they all went on with their own convos while i was invalidated for being who i am. i told one of my other friends at the lunch table because i had class with her afterwards and she understood and she felt really bad. so it's great to know that people support me.
but im also really worried that i'm steering my best friend who has a crush on M as noted before away from her. I still think M is a good person she just doesn't like to believe in what she doesn't know. but ive done this before. the last time i was right. but what if this time im wrong? i feel like im just crushing my best friend every time. i told her what happened but she's also been having problems talking to M recently too. the two are friends but they didn't text for like over 2 weeks apparently and M thought something was up, really nothing was because my best friend was just waiting for her to say something first.

another extra bonus lore: i was walking with some friends out to the buses and i saw M in the halls. we met eye contact, i was testing her to see how she would respond if i just smiled at her and waved hi like i do with any of my friends in the halls.
she just narrowed her eyebrows at me, then looked away.

sourapples Professional	1 year, 2 months ago by sourapples here’s the tea:
sourapples Professional	1 year, 2 months ago by sourapples so abt like a year ago this girl named N dated this guy named C. her bff M was dating Cc and they lasted for like a month and then broke up. then C and N also broke up and N dated Cc (her bffs ex). they were super mad at each other for a long time (at least M was) and then N and C broke up. some time passes and C is dating someone from another school and then he actually cheats on her with another girl named P. and then he cheats on P with a girl well call A. Now A, P, and the first girl (well call her k) don’t know about each other. And then c dances with S and they go to a school activity together. So this guy, C was dating three or four girls at the same time! A was also at the school activity so she saw C and S and was so sad and S knew about P but thought C and P had broken up and it was a huge mess but that’s the tea ☕️
Hylia224 Bracelet King	1 year, 2 months ago by Hylia224 @sourapples that sounds like a soap opera actually
sourapples Professional	1 year, 2 months ago by sourapples lol yea
violasrule Bracelet King	1 year, 2 months ago by violasrule so i have this one friend, let's call her M. i sit next to her at lunch. See now our table has a sort of "division" between it, all sorts of different people at it but we're all kinda? friends? like we get along ig but my closer friends are definitely the right half of the table, which is where I sit. it's also the primarily gay half bc 2/3 of us are not straight in that half lolll but the left half, they're all straight and some of them im not rly even friends with. M sits on the left half and talks with some of those people about her man n stuff like that, you know, regular gossip. She and I became really close in 8th grade, we had gym together and were practically inseparable. Our birthdays are literally a day apart, and we both just UNDERSTOOD each other. but i had one thing that i can never tell like anyone except for people that i actually trust: i am, in fact, aroace oh boy so yesterday, our right side gay half of the table was just talking. The kid sitting to my right, I'm not really friends with him, but we talk to each other sometimes. He's better friends with the other 3 gay ppl at my table. so it's cool. but he actually didn't know that one of the girls there, one of our friends, was bi, so then everyone's like talking about it. M overhears this, turns to the girl who's bi, and goes "WAIT UR BI I DIDNT KNOW" and the girl responded "yeah i am" and M said "oh that makes a lot of sense actually" also extra lore: my best friend (she's lesbian) has actually had a crush on M for the past 6+ months and so we've been tryna figure out if M is actually like lesbian or bi or anything but we never even rly figured out if she supports lgbtq+ uhm but then M asked me if i was gay and like i mean she seemed okay with lgbtq+ in general and like her reaction to the other girl being bi was normal so instead of doing what i SHOULD have done and lied, i went "well im not gay im actually aroace tho" and she's like "I don't know what that means" and so i explain and she interjects every so often saying stuff like "that's not real" "i dont believe you" "that's not true" "that's weird" (to which i said "i know" because honestly, the amount of people pleasing i do all the time to be friends with M is absurd) like i literally even told her that i've never actually had a crush (i've had your like aroace type crush-y not a crush at all thing which is hard to explain but iykyk) and she didnt even respond to that then she just turned to talk to her other friends that im not rly friends with at the table like nothing happened. she's probably gonna forget all about it. either that or just start ignoring me for the rest of my life because i dont fall in love. i got up and for the remaining 5 minutes of lunch went to sit with one of my closest friends (not my best friend but like she's rly close) and she's pan/ace and i explained to her what happened (also she sits at a different lunch table with one of her new friends most of the time because there's like competition for space at our lunch table and i feel bad abt the fact that she can't sit there, but i still like text her during lunch) but now imma just stay over there for lunch because i no longer feel comfortable at that table. because literally nobody else at the table heard what happened, like they all went on with their own convos while i was invalidated for being who i am. i told one of my other friends at the lunch table because i had class with her afterwards and she understood and she felt really bad. so it's great to know that people support me. but im also really worried that i'm steering my best friend who has a crush on M as noted before away from her. I still think M is a good person she just doesn't like to believe in what she doesn't know. but ive done this before. the last time i was right. but what if this time im wrong? i feel like im just crushing my best friend every time. i told her what happened but she's also been having problems talking to M recently too. the two are friends but they didn't text for like over 2 weeks apparently and M thought something was up, really nothing was because my best friend was just waiting for her to say something first. another extra bonus lore: i was walking with some friends out to the buses and i saw M in the halls. we met eye contact, i was testing her to see how she would respond if i just smiled at her and waved hi like i do with any of my friends in the halls. she just narrowed her eyebrows at me, then looked away.

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