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knot2shaby
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by knot2shaby
GAYS AND TRANS PEEPS AND EVERYONE IN BETWEEN!!!!!! ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธI NEED YOUR HELPPPP ok so hereโs some background infoโฆ so Iโm 15, and have grown up in a Christian home. My family is very religious, and i would consider myself somewhat religious also. My family does not support lgbtq+ and not in a really hateful way. (Although sometimes I cringe at the things they say-) I also didnโt support lgbtq for a while, and I was even bullied for it. But since about 5/6th grade I started having โgirl crushesโ and attractions to girls ig. In the past few months Iโve realized that Iโm actually lesbian- soโฆ I think I was just upset whenever I saw someone who was out because I knew I could never do that, no matter how bad I wanted it. I met some amazing and supportive people, (they both bi lol) and theyโve helped me accept my sexuality ๐) (Ok sorry for the long unnecessary information, Iโve just been holding that all in for years and have told absolutely no one except those two friends I mentioned ๐) andddddddd they want to go to my states pride parade together. i really really want to go, but my parents would NEVER let me go, and if they found out I went I would lose my phone, get grounded, and then they would probably kill me for lying to them. And going to a pride parade lol. What should i do?? Should i risk it to go to the parade? And how would I even do that? ๐ ๐ค And how can/should I come out to unsupportive parents/family? |
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halokiwi
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by halokiwi
This might not be what you want to hear, butIf going to a pride parade puts you in danger, don't go! If coming out to your family puts you in danger, don't come out to your family! I think you probably know best what the risk is for being discovered when going to the pride parade and what the consequences would be. You have to decide for yourself, if it is worth it! Nobody else can make that decision for you and I think they also shouldn't, because of how much it could put you in danger! |
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knot2shaby
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by knot2shaby
@halokiwi thank u!!!! โค๏ธ โค๏ธ โค๏ธ
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cromchyi
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by cromchyi
What HaloKiwi said! But also, coming from a fellow lesbian good luck in the future ^_^ !! Know that you're not alone and that I and other members of the LGBTQ community support you !! lots of love : D !! |
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knot2shaby
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by knot2shaby
@cromchyithank you so much! im glad to know i have a community who welcomes and accepts me ๐ |
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Moogle
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by Moogle
I'm not saying this to scare you, but my guardian kicked me out of the house and I became homeless when they found out I was queer. I do not know your parents, but if you think they would harm you or in any way make your quality of life miserable, I would not recommend doing anything that could out you to them. If it were me I would also be careful about posting about your queer identity on public sites like this where they could possibly see it. Same goes for messages about being queer they might be able to find on your phone. Please stay safe! |
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knot2shaby
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by knot2shaby
@Mooglethank you for the advice! i'll probably keep my gayness low-key now lol ๐ im so so sorry your parents didn't accept you for who you are, you did not deserve to be treated like that. I really hope you're doing well now, and embracing your identity. <3 |
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Moogle
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1ย year, 6ย months ago by Moogle
@knot2shaby Thank you for the kind words! I hope you will meet lots of folks who will accept and love you for all parts of your identity ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ And also that one day your parents can too โค
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