Ex-boyfriend advice?
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kadence___
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1 year, 10 months ago by kadence___
So my bf recently broke up with me, and I decided to come here instead of my friends bc all of them are toxic. 😭(If you hate reading long paragraphs, skip please 🙂) So me and him were dating for 4 months, we went to homecoming together, etc. Until a week and a half ago, he started to act weird. He left me on read for 3 days straight, didn't tell me good morning or good night, started to ignore me when he was talking to his friends, or not include me, and talk to me 3 times a day. I assumed that maybe he was having issues, so I tried to talk about it to him 4 days ago, to kinda clear things up with him. He never changed. And so on Thursday, I texted him "we need to talk", and he replied with "yup". So I called him, and I couldn't say it myself because I was crying, So I kept stuttering and just leaving awkward silences, until he finally sade, "(my name), we need to break up." and I was like, yeah we do. He asked if I was good, and I told him no. And he asked for his sweater back (because I still have it) and I told him yeah. He said, "If there's anything I have that you want back just tell me." I told him no, because all the things I gave him were meant for him, not me. And the next day, I walk into band all happy and excited for the day, fake it till you make it, right? And he looked at me and realized that I never needed him apparently, and started to look sad for the rest of the day. And on that same day, 5 boys offer to take me to the movies, and they offered to jump him for me, another guy asked for my number, (super nice, i've talked to him about 3 months now as friends.) And all my friends are like, omg, now you can go to courtwarming (another dance) with me instead of him! It's just crazy and I wanted to rant about it. Any advice..? |
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hollow_log
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1 year, 10 months ago by hollow_log
wow, that’s a lot lol. i’m rlly proud of u for being so open to communication and recognizing when things aren’t quite right. i’m going to assume ur still a bit sad about the breakup and all of the new people coming into ur life is a bit overwhelming, which is totally valid and understandable. i think u should take things at ur own pace. if ur not ready to start dating someone else or, in doing so, u would be preventing urself from processing and accepting the past few weeks, then u absolutely don’t have to. u mentioned that some of ur friends can be toxic, that should probs be the first order of business. U NEED SUPPORTIVE FRIENDS!!!!! (and u totally deserve them). if u feel like u’ve processed it all and are ready to try something new, then, by all means, go ahead. hope some of this is relevant and if there’s anything i’m misunderstanding,
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hollow_log
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1 year, 10 months ago by hollow_log
*if there’s anything i’m misunderstanding, lmk
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kadence___
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1 year, 9 months ago by kadence___
@hollow_log I'll try and find some better friends, I think i'm on the right track with bracelet book lol
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hollow_log
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1 year, 9 months ago by hollow_log
haha so true
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