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audreymb
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1 year, 10 months ago by audreymb
There’s a guy I was talking to but I don’t want a boyfriend and he’s really nice and now I’m just leading him on, and idk how to tell him I’m not interested. Honestly thought ab ghosting him at one point. None of my friends have any good advice but maybe you guys do 😂😭
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Zaan_13
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1 year, 10 months ago by Zaan_13
Has he told you he likes you like that? I think you can stop talking to him as often as you normally do, and at some point you can come clean and say you realised you're not really ready for a relationship. Depending on how he feels you could maybe also bring up the topic of relationships and then talk abt your feelings on it if you know he won't say he's ready to date 😅 It'd be kinda awkward yea but I think ghosting him will hurt / confuse him more bc he won't even know why, and he might also still try to reach out to you which just prolongs the whole thing. It's good that you know what you want! Good luck 💕💕
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audreymb
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1 year, 10 months ago by audreymb
He hasn’t come out and said it but he’s always calling me pretty and complementing random things ab me and keep saying I should come over. I’ve been leaving him on delivered for a few hours at a time but he doesn’t get it lol. Thanks for the advice @Zaan_13 I’m just gonna come clean w him lol
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audreymb
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1 year, 10 months ago by audreymb
@Update I told him that I’m not ready for a boyfriend and I need to focus on school and stuff and he was so sweet ab it I’m a horrible person for this 😭😭
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yayadude
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1 year, 10 months ago by yayadude
It’s ok to not be ready 😭😭 good luck 😊
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Zaan_13
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1 year, 10 months ago by Zaan_13
Don't feel bad!! 🤗 I'm glad he was so nice abt it and not bitter / mean like other guys would be. Not sure if you'd keep talking with him on a friendly level but don't worry at all. It's best to rip off the bandaid before you both got in too deep
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audreymb
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1 year, 10 months ago by audreymb
We agreed to stay friends it’s all good lol 👍🏻
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IndyHaine
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1 year, 10 months ago by IndyHaine
Please NEVER feel bad for something like this! You did nothing wrong and you even right out told them even though he didn't ask you about it, so you more than did right by him!Believe me, I once gave in in a situation like that and agreed to be with a guy just because of the pressure of our friends and because he was sad whenI initially said no. That ended up way, WAY worse for him than if I'd just stayed with my "no". You behaved very responsible for initiating the hard conversation and telling him in a nice manner. I wish I had been like this when I was younger! You did absolutely everything right! |
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audreymb
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1 year, 10 months ago by audreymb
So I’ve been barely talking to him and giving him all the signs that I’m not interested anymore but he’s still telling me good morning and asking ab my day and I get he’s being nice but it’s getting on my nerves bc he double snapped like three times since yesterday and I want to bang my head against a wall. Like he doesn’t get that I don’t like him
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hollow_log
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1 year, 10 months ago by hollow_log
maybe tell him you want a bit of space? communication will prevent u from building up resentment that eventually rots a relationship, platonic of not.
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