I feel empty I guess and idk what to do.
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
Idk what's wrong with me but I've been feeling empty. Like i can sit in my room watching a show for hours and not feel a thing. When my parents ask if I'm fine I put on a smile and say "yeah, I'm fine" and they said they've noticed changes in me where I never go outside anymore, I stay in my room all day, and barely talk. I've been constantly bored even while doing things I normally enjoy. I procrastinate a lot, and don't really feel much around my BestFriend either when I'm normally happy. I've been feeling lonely too ig. Idk what's wrong. Any ideas...?
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ArtsyAnna
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2 years, 3 months ago by ArtsyAnna
To help with the loneliness I find trying to find someone else in the same room or you have noticed before sitting by themselves or sad and try to make them feel less lonely and included. Ask them things and get to know them. It really helps. I have done it several times.
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ArtsyAnna
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2 years, 3 months ago by ArtsyAnna
With the bored part try trying new things. Whether it is something you’ve never done like quilling or some sport. Or maybe even just reading a book that you’ve never read before. And eventually (hopefully) you will find something that you enjoy doing. For me recently that would be making jewelry with beads and just making a collection. Let me know how it goes if you try these ideas.
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@ArtsyAnna with the lonely thing, I'm mainly at home so the only people ever in the room are mainly my mom and dad but they're always on their phones and I recently got in trouble to where I have no apps or many contacts with people. I try talking but sometimes it just seems like they don't care or don't pay attention.
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ArtsyAnna
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2 years, 3 months ago by ArtsyAnna
Okay, that was my problem to. Because I often feel lonely but I am mainly at home other then youth group or something. Can I ask if you go to church?
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ArtsyAnna
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2 years, 3 months ago by ArtsyAnna
If you don’t want to answer no pressure!! Just say so.
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@ArtsyAnna I do not go to church, well I don't go to my local church but whenever I'm in the city (I live in a small town) my dad and I will go to this one church but I haven't been to the city in a long time.
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ArtsyAnna
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2 years, 3 months ago by ArtsyAnna
Hmmm... I was going to say maybe try going to a youth group at a church but you live a ways away it seems from yours.
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@ArtsyAnna well we have a local church here in town but it doesn't have church groups, and the church group that there is, it's a summer youth program and considering I'm 16 almost 17 I think it only goes up to 8th grade
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x_x
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2 years, 3 months ago by x_x
Hey. I also feel like this all the time. Still figuring out how to deal with it. Feel free to pm me if u want to talk about it tho.
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@x_x okay thank you I just don't know what it is
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x_x
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2 years, 3 months ago by x_x
ya. it can get really hard and annoying but sometimes its not that bad. you just like have to push through it. always here to talk.
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@x_x yeah it's been tough
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crafter83
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2 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
Not to be that person to diagnose, but those are the same symptoms I have when my depression is really bad
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crafter83
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2 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
You hit a lot of high categories of ithttps://www.ismanet.org/doctoryourspirit/pdfs/Beck-Depression-Inventory-BDI.pdf |
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@crafter83 I did the little test thing, and scored a 34...
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chicken156
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2 years, 3 months ago by chicken156
Hiiiii! Idk wat u can do, but feel free to chat with me lol
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-Nobody-
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2 years, 3 months ago by -Nobody-
@chicken156 okay, thanks
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knotnotkni
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2 years, 3 months ago by knotnotkni
I agree with @crafter83. This could definitely be what’s happening, if you feel comfortable doing so I would recommend talking to your parents about it. Nobody deserves to feel that way day after day and talking to your parents could be a first step to not feeling like that all the time
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crafter83
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2 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
If you are not seeing a therapist or counselor, I’d definitely think about that.Because you scored severe depression |
