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TaM03
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2 years, 5 months ago by TaM03
I don't want to bother my S/O with this but I really need to rant I feel like my sister is the favorite in the family and it really hurts because they treat me like I'm not even here unless I make a mistake then they actually "care" I just don't know what to do anymore does anyone have any advice?
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i_pinecone
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2 years, 5 months ago by i_pinecone
i don’t have any advice for you but you can always vent in my pms
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TaM03
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2 years, 5 months ago by TaM03
@i_pinecone thank you I appreciate that
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bsoftball
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2 years, 5 months ago by bsoftball
Same here as @i_pinecone said. I’m really sorry!! Just remember you are amazing. Maybe try talking to your parents and let them know how you feel.
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isnoe2305
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2 years, 5 months ago by isnoe2305
Tell your parents how you feel, because communication is the basis for them to understand how you feel and be able to improve
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TaM03
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2 years, 5 months ago by TaM03
@ isnoe2305 I have tried so many times they never seem to actually care
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Laurenmtan
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2 years, 5 months ago by Laurenmtan
I’m always her to listen. It can be hard when you feel almost invisible at times. You can talk to your parents if you feel comfortable with it but even talking to your sister. Maybe she can help you
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TaM03
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2 years, 5 months ago by TaM03
@Laurenmtan I wish that was an option my parents won't listen I have brought it up so many times it is just dumb at this point and my sister is only 7 so she doesn't understand it at all she is only my half sister my stepdad has been in my life since I was about 5 but since my sister he doesn't care about me nearly as much
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Laurenmtan
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2 years, 5 months ago by Laurenmtan
@TaM03 that’s hard. I’m sorry you feel this way. Maybe another close family member or friend.
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nev_m_07
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2 years, 4 months ago by nev_m_07
I kinda feel the same way. My brother does stuff like he’ll scream at me and whenever I get in trouble for being “mean” to him, I’ll tell them about the stuff he said to me, but they never believe me. It’s frustrating bc they baby him since he’s the youngest, but he’s not a baby, he’s 13, almost 14 in a couple months. It bothers me bc at his age I was doing so many more chores than him, and bc they baby him he can’t do anything by himself. And I worry abt when I go to college in a couple years bc I’m not going to be here to do everything for him. And anytime I try to tell him to do it himself, my parents are just like “just do it for him”. Or if he makes a mistake with something, they’ll be “upset but not mad”, but anytime I make a mistake, they get mad. And it’s hard bc I work rlly hard in school, I get good grades, I help out around the house, and yet I still feel like it’s not enough. And like for example I asked my mom if I could go out with my friends this weekend, and she was like “what did you do to deserve it,” though a) I did my chores this week and b) I got straight A’s all year. Idk how to address it, but ig talk to your parents bc communication might be the best solution.
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TaM03
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2 years, 4 months ago by TaM03
@nev_m_07 That is exactly what is going on with me tbh I am so sorry that you have to go through all of that too |
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