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nev_m_07
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nev_m_07
2 years, 8 months ago by nev_m_07
Ok so I really like this guy, I’m pretty sure he likes me back, and I really want to tell him how I feel, but I’m terrified to tell him. If there is anyone who has confessed their feelings to someone and has any advice/tips, please let me know.

Ik some people have confessed over text, but I don’t want to do that. I’d rather make it more personal, but I’m kinda scared to tell him because if he has a bad reaction, I don’t want to see it. If you have any tips, please share.
Knotday
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Knotday
2 years, 8 months ago by Knotday
Im so sry if this doesnt help but
what you dont want to do is right off the bat say i like you your cute. I know this sounds weird but what you should do is startd a convo the way you would and start to kinda complement him and then kinda get to that point. For example:
I just wanted to tell you that i think that your ........ And one thing i like abouut you is ....... i love you personality..... i just think your a really awesome guy and i kinda have feelings fo ryou do you feel the same.
juliana_e
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juliana_e
2 years, 7 months ago by juliana_e
Ive done this before and i will admit it is very terrifying to but here is what i have to share

- be somewhere private to tell him
- start off with a casual conversation
- give him some time to think about it and his answer and don't be afraid to ask him again if he hasn't given you an answer
- be prepared for both answers, especially the "not so good" answer
- if he rejects you, just know it might for a good cause
- if you don't tell him you will never know what he feels about you, whether its good or bad

I really hope these tips really help. Good luck tell him i hope it goes well and just know if it doesn't go well know that you did it for a good cause and you were brave enough to tell him. "Rejection is protection" 😊
xc2024
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xc2024
2 years, 7 months ago by xc2024
also know that he may have feelings for you but not necessarily want to change your relationship if you are good friends, not necessarily a bad thing, over time he may be willing, just be aware of that
twiggytape
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twiggytape
2 years, 6 months ago by twiggytape
just tell him man if it doesnt go well itll be super awkward but if you dont tell him youll regret it you only live once so might as well go for it
paularant5
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paularant5
2 years, 6 months ago by paularant5
Just be yourself 😄
nev_m_07
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nev_m_07
2 years, 6 months ago by nev_m_07
@twiggytape @paularant5 thanks for the advice (:
knot2shaby
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knot2shaby
2 years, 6 months ago by knot2shaby
I would bring up the topic of likening someone and see if he’s secretive about his or open about his. If he’s open about it and tells you who she is, then he might not like you. 😭
If hes secretive about it or if he quickly changes the subject, he might like u!

Always remember to think about what would happen to your friendship if he said no or if you guys break up

Best of luck! ❤️
nev_m_07
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nev_m_07
2 years, 5 months ago by nev_m_07
@Knotday @juliana_e @xc2024 @twiggytape @knot2shaby after months of ranting to my friends and asking for advice on here, I finally told him today, and he said that he likes me back but that he’s not ready for a relationship (which I also agree with). But yeah thanks for all of the advice guys! I’m so happy I finally told him and even happier that we both feel the same way. 😄
juliana_e
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juliana_e
2 years, 5 months ago by juliana_e
That’s so amazing and I’m so happy for you. Even if y’all aren’t in a relationship yet you still had the courage to tell him that’s so amazing. I’m so glad I could help 😄 😊
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