heartbreak makes you broken
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cactusgirl
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2 years, 9 months ago by cactusgirl
so i have a huge crush on this guy at my school, and we were pretty great friends. we talked all the time and texted and it was pretty great. but then he found out i liked him (long story) and something happened. idk what it was he just slowly stopped talking to me like it was a lot of one sided conversation and eventually it just stopped. he ignores me when i try to talk to him at school and also doesn’t respond to my texts. the whole thing sucks and just makes me sad. i constantly want to cry and just break down, because i still really like him and he hates me. so i thought that i’m my time of sad depressionness i should get therapy from bb so here we are. anyone have any suggestions on what i should do?
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Nanna_Ozzy
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2 years, 9 months ago by Nanna_Ozzy
Girl, just keep in mind that you are amazing and beautiful! You don’t need a boy to complete you. You don’t deserve someone who won’t treat you the way you should be treated. Meaning with love and respect. If you were to get into a relationship with this person you wouldn’t want him to putting in no effort, and you giving it your all. It should be both sides putting in equal amounts of effort. Aside from all that, you could always just ask him what’s going on, and how he is. He might be going through some stuff rn that would make it hard for him to talk. Like I got to a point where I was texting my crush everyday, and all of a sudden it stopped. It turns out that he was really sick, and didn’t really do anything over the span of time that we didn’t talk. Just take it slow, and be a good friend to him. That is THE BEST advice I can give. Being the safe space for someone is one of the best ways for you to go from being friends, to something more. Because you already have that trust built up going into the relationship.
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Nanna_Ozzy
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2 years, 9 months ago by Nanna_Ozzy
But keep in mind that if he isn’t interested, there isn’t anything wrong with you. There is someone out there for you who will make loving them seem effortless. Keep your chin up! I’ve been there, definitely not a fun situation, but it just all prepares you for something better.
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cactusgirl
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2 years, 9 months ago by cactusgirl
@Nanna_Ozzy thankyou so much that actually made me feel a lot better <3
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61805327
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2 years, 9 months ago by 61805327
yeah same problem here but we make eye contact a ton still idk why lol
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xc2024
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2 years, 9 months ago by xc2024
girl, it’ll all be alright, i promise. it’s hard when friendships change, but they do. just ask him, no offense to any guys on here, u
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xc2024
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2 years, 9 months ago by xc2024
but in my experience guys don’t always realize how their actions can be interpreted. and if you are really struggling mentally ,
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xc2024
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2 years, 9 months ago by xc2024
oh my gosh 😡 i can not type lol, but anyways when i’m really struggling mentally, i write “it’ll all be alright” on the inside of my wrist in sharpie.
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cactusgirl
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2 years, 9 months ago by cactusgirl
@xc2024 lol yeah it’s kinda annoying thanks haha
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xc2024
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2 years, 9 months ago by xc2024
sometimes that helps, and sorry for my inability to not send these replies until i’m done typing
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