i need some advice (crush advice)
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nev_m_07
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2 years, 10 months ago by nev_m_07
So I realized last week that I have a crush on one of my close friends. We have a lot of classes together, we eat lunch together, we have inside jokes, and we’re really close. I don’t mean to sound silly or anything, but it’s the closest I’ve ever been to a male friend. I’ve had many crushes before, and I’ve only ever told the person that I liked them once. I want to tell my crush that I like him, but I also don’t know if he likes me back. I also don’t want to tell him because I just met him at the start of this school year, and we are really good friends and I don’t want to ruin that. A third reason why I’m hesitant is because I have a huge crush on someone else. Like, it’s such a big crush that when he talks to me I can’t even get a sentence out, and I get shaky and start blushing. I think he likes me back because I catch him looking at me, and I’ve heard rumors from my friends and his friends that he likes me. I really really like him, but I’m kinda scared to tell him to his face, and I don’t want to wait too long because someone else might like him as well. What should I do?
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Zaan_13
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2 years, 10 months ago by Zaan_13
It's normal to have a crush when you spend a lottt of time with someone, esp a guy. You can give it some time since you said y'all just started getting close and see how things go from there, like you may eventually mellow out and realize you're just super close but as friends. You can also ask him if he likes anyone and see how he reactsWith the other guy, do you get along well? Are y'all decent enough friends, or if not, would you wanna get close to him on a friend basis regardless of the crush you have on him? If he really does like you back, try and see if your mutual friends can get more info about how he feels, and maybe even convince him to be the one who makes a move haha. Good luck 😉 |
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nev_m_07
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2 years, 10 months ago by nev_m_07
@Zaan_13 thx for the advice! I’m not super close with the other guy, but I’m decently close. I know the basic facts about him (his bday, his favorite color, his interests, etc.) He’s also super hardworking, and even when his grades aren’t the best, he works hard to improve. I would love to get to know him better, but I’m kinda shy to talk to him. But since we’re in a bunch of classes together, I’ll probably use the next group project as a way to get to know him better. Thanks again for the help 😊
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nev_m_07
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2 years, 10 months ago by nev_m_07
@Zaan_13 also, love the new profile pic! You’re super pretty!! ❤️❤️
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Roxi_cat7
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2 years, 10 months ago by Roxi_cat7
@nev_m_07 hey! I am in the exact same situation, so I get you! I met my crush/friend in 3rd grade, and we've been inseparable since. We've been shipped a lot, but kind of just took it in stride... until I realized that I actually had a crush on him. I went ahead and mentioned it, and he said that he'd liked me as more than a friend for a while. We decided to keep it as friends, and have been in the 'not just friends but not more than that' zone for 2 years now. I guess I was just so used to that, I didn't think of it ever changing. Then, I met a new guy (lets call him A) He's cute, super nice, and makes an effort to be friendly, even though we've only really said a few words when paired for a project. I know that he doesn't like me, but I still have a crush. My friend found out that I might like this guy, and got a bit jealous. (It was funny, I actually enjoyed it, in spite of myself) Now our friendship is a bit off balance... needless to say, I've got ya |
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2 years, 10 months ago by Roxi_cat7
My advice for you would be to be open with your friend (If you're like me, and are close enough to talk about anything). It'll make you feel better to get it off your chest, and maybe, like me, he feels the same. It's always better to share what's going on, and be open.
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Zaan_13
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2 years, 10 months ago by Zaan_13
Okay that's still good! And you're in a good place with the same classes and group project, so you can defo get to know him better. Don't worry too much about being shy it happens to the best of us! try talking in a group with him + your mutual friends so it won't seem too daunting to be talking to him directly/alone And omg thank u so much you're so kind!! 🤗💕 |
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