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braceletmk

Bracelet King

3 years, 1 month ago by braceletmk

As the title says, do any of yall have best friend problems or stuff like that? my best friend and I started drifting away a lot during covid and there was a point where we didn't even see each other for more than a year. so yeah, now we more of just friends than best friends since there is kind of this awkward distance between us.

loopAloop

Bracelet King

3 years, 1 month ago by loopAloop

I totally agree with you, we were never best friends but now I don't even want to be friends at all (I know that sounds mean but I just don't get the same vibe from her anymore). And I don't know what to do bc she thinks we are best friends even though we were never.

ChaosZone

Bracelet King

3 years, 1 month ago by ChaosZone

The past month me and my 'bestfriend' were very distant and she was just very horrible to me so recently I finally said I didn't want to be friends at all anymore. But I guess its not a best friend problem anymore cause we arent friends and its not a problem 😂

Zaan_13

Bracelet King

3 years, 1 month ago by Zaan_13

Sometimes we're only ever super close with someone bc we'd see them 5 days a week in school, work, extra-curriculars, etc. I had a lot of close friends like that and then after we all graduated from HS we didn't keep in touch and drifted apart. For me it was really that we didn't have anything to talk about outside of school and that made messaging a bit difficult. Or even if we had lots to talk about, it just wasn't the same once we weren't hanging out IRL.
It sucks to drift away from a best friend, especially when the friendship was good and there were no arguments etc to cause the lack of communication. I hope you do get to hang out in person a bit more often eventually, or you can find something new to bond over and enjoy even when you're apart from one another. Otherwise it's pretty natural to lose touch with someone, or even keep contact less often than you usually would, especially after a year+ of not having much to do/discuss.
I have a lot of friends from primary school that I was super close with that I don't see anymore bc we're all in different countries. We defo don't talk as often as before but still keep in touch from time to time, and when we all meet up it's like we're back in high school and weren't even apart 😊

braceletmk Bracelet King	3 years, 1 month ago by braceletmk As the title says, do any of yall have best friend problems or stuff like that? my best friend and I started drifting away a lot during covid and there was a point where we didn't even see each other for more than a year. so yeah, now we more of just friends than best friends since there is kind of this awkward distance between us.
loopAloop Bracelet King	3 years, 1 month ago by loopAloop I totally agree with you, we were never best friends but now I don't even want to be friends at all (I know that sounds mean but I just don't get the same vibe from her anymore). And I don't know what to do bc she thinks we are best friends even though we were never.
ChaosZone Bracelet King	3 years, 1 month ago by ChaosZone The past month me and my 'bestfriend' were very distant and she was just very horrible to me so recently I finally said I didn't want to be friends at all anymore. But I guess its not a best friend problem anymore cause we arent friends and its not a problem 😂
Zaan_13 Bracelet King	3 years, 1 month ago by Zaan_13 Sometimes we're only ever super close with someone bc we'd see them 5 days a week in school, work, extra-curriculars, etc. I had a lot of close friends like that and then after we all graduated from HS we didn't keep in touch and drifted apart. For me it was really that we didn't have anything to talk about outside of school and that made messaging a bit difficult. Or even if we had lots to talk about, it just wasn't the same once we weren't hanging out IRL. It sucks to drift away from a best friend, especially when the friendship was good and there were no arguments etc to cause the lack of communication. I hope you do get to hang out in person a bit more often eventually, or you can find something new to bond over and enjoy even when you're apart from one another. Otherwise it's pretty natural to lose touch with someone, or even keep contact less often than you usually would, especially after a year+ of not having much to do/discuss. I have a lot of friends from primary school that I was super close with that I don't see anymore bc we're all in different countries. We defo don't talk as often as before but still keep in touch from time to time, and when we all meet up it's like we're back in high school and weren't even apart 😊

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