guys i need some help
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amayab
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3 years, 1 month ago by amayab
ok so i've been dealing with anxiety for about a year now, but i've been dealing with it alone. There is like one person that knows everything that has been happening and there are some people who think they know what is happening but they don't know the whole story. What i need you guys for is because I want to get an evaluation to see if i do have anxiety of if its something else, but I haven't told my mom what has been happening so I need you're guys' help with how to tell my mom what has been happening and then asking if i can go to the doctor to get an evaluation because its been getting really bad to the point where i cant calm myself down without the help of other people. So if you guys with anxiety could tell me how you told your parents that you have anxiety i would love it. 😘
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 1 month ago by GenMalucci
I texted my mom with what was going on because I knew I would just break down and be unable to get the point across if I told her in person. There is no shame in telling people, it may seem humiliating and like you’ll be judged, but it certainly lifts a weight off your shoulders. I wish you the best!
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 1 month ago by GenMalucci
She also knew about the cause of why I was struggling before she knew about the anxiety. 🤷🏼♀️ That probably helped get the point across that I’m struggling with anxiety
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amayab
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3 years, 1 month ago by amayab
@GenMalucci Thank you the problem with me and my mom is that we're not close at all like I'm never home. And if I do tell about a problem that I'm having like back pain or something she says that she is going to do something but she never does or she tries to put off doing something by saying oh we'll see how you're feeling tomorrow and I usually feel the same and I'll tell her and it'll just be the same thing all.over again until I finally give up and stop telling her things.
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 1 month ago by GenMalucci
Oh, I’m sorry about that. If you have another guardian or relation to tell I suggest it. Maybe a friends mom?
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amayab
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3 years, 1 month ago by amayab
@GenMalucci well my tia knows but she can't do anything because she's not my legal guardian and her and my mom don't have the best relationship but maybe i could tell my Nana I just don't know how to start the conversation.
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 1 month ago by GenMalucci
Sorry for the late response! I brought it up in an indirect way, I said “is there any way to get rid of anxiety?” Because that’s really what I was/am aiming for amongst other things, and my mom asked me what symptoms I am struggling with. So, my guess is that it won’t be that smooth. Maybe you could try to get your Nana aside, and say something like “Hey, I’ve been struggling with anxiety recently.” And if you feel comfortable with it, explain why you can’t exactly speak to your mom about it.
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 1 month ago by GenMalucci
Asking for help is key, because someone could easily say “Oh ok..” and then the conversation is ended without a lot of gain. Say what your symptoms are, and ask for help or guidance.
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amayab
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3 years, 1 month ago by amayab
@GenMalucci I'm definitely going to have to try that. Thank you sooo much for helping me this definitely helped me a lot and hopefully everything goes well and smooth, Fingers crossed. ❤️ ❤️
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 1 month ago by GenMalucci
No problem! 😊
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