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Cassie989
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3 years, 2 months ago by Cassie989
I have this old friend but she isn't talking to me anymore. I've sent her Skype messages and emails but she has not responded. I know she is seeing the Skype ones so I'm wondering if she still likes me. It has been a whole month of silence. I need some advice please help! Thanks! ❤️
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sadnymph
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3 years, 2 months ago by sadnymph
perhaps she is too busy to respond? or maybe something bad happened. have you had an argument?
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OwObama
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3 years, 2 months ago by OwObama
If it's been a month and you know she's seen the messages, it really just seems like she doesn't want to talk to you. Can you talk to her in person, or is she just an online friend? This may be her way of cutting you off, which is really mean without any explanation or reason, but some people are like that :/
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marmar02
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3 years, 2 months ago by marmar02
This happened to me with my neighbor who I was friends with since I was 2 she’s a year younger and ever since covid we just grew apart but after not being as close I realized that she was never a good friend she’s a year younger but got a phone before me when I was in third grade she got her phone and was always on it and if we were at her house I would have nothing to do I would just go home then once she got tik tok she thought she was so cool and was always saying do you know this tik tok dance and make fun of me bc I didn’t have tik tok I hadn’t realized at the time bc I was so young but as we got older she started acting older than her age she wears crop tops up to her bra and short shorts that look like underwear (shes 11) but she started getting friends from my school I was in 5th so she was still in elementary but she started getting friends from people 3 years older than me so in 8th graders and there was nights that I couldn’t fall asleep cause I was thinking about how sad I was she didn’t talk to me anymore but my mom helped me through it and made me feel better abt the situation (we had a streak over 500 on Snapchat but lost it a few months ago and haven’t talked since) I hope you can figure out a way to be friends with her again or get friends that care about you and your feelings❤️❤️ if you ever want to talk I’m here😘😘
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marmar02
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3 years, 2 months ago by marmar02
There was a few times I reached out to her to go into town and get ice cream but sometime she ditched me and other times she invited a ton of other people and I just want it to be us
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mintcookie
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3 years, 2 months ago by mintcookie
Hey man!I too have experienced this before and it sucks 😔 so I’m sending my support, hope you’re doing okay… I think, since she sees the messages on Skype, try to get through to her there (send a message and ask if there’s any reason for the silence). If you do see her around (like if you have school and stuff) you could also confront her directly- which is scary but it’s the most direct way to clear the air. And if she continues to ignore you/ give silent treatment, my honest advice? She’s not worth your time. A friendship, or any relationship for that matter, requires both parties to put in effort. If she refuses to do her part, she clearly doesn’t value or respect you. Why stick around and be hurt with a person like that? Expand your social circles with other people who actually know your worth. Sending love ❤️ ❤️ |
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bball3458
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3 years, 2 months ago by bball3458
Hello!I'm really sorry ur going thro this: ( However, I wouldn't necasirally assume its you. This has happened to me before and I was really nervous that person didn't like me anymore, but then I realized they were going through a hard time and just couldn't deal with texting me back at that moment. So if you know other ppl who are friends with her, I would reach out to them and see if they have heard from her. If they have, I would try and talk to her in person if you can. It might be easier to have a discussion. But also, if she is causing you a lot of stress and you're worrying about if she likes you or not etc..., you friendship might not be worth it. Also it's always helpful for me to talk to someone else who knows the person personally, but is still outside of the problem because they can sometimes see things better. I hope this helped and good luck! 🙂 |
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