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LiliaKnots

Bracelet King

3 years, 2 months ago by LiliaKnots

@Elise64 yeah the best friend I was talking about, another friend of the mean girl, and I had a talk and we all came to the conclusion that we are going to stay friends with her but sit down and talk to her about what is right and what’s not. I think she’s really confused about everything. I think she’s also confused about the BLM movement now that I’ve thought about it. I don’t think she supports ALM because she said “black people weren’t the only people who were slaves” but that’s not really the point of the movement so maybe I should explain to her. I mean she’s not white so she doesn’t believe in white people being the best but I think she believes that other races other than black and white deserve more recognition so I am going to tell her what the BLM movement really is and maybe she’ll agree that she was wrong on that one. I don’t really know why she doesn’t want the vaccine really. When I told her my parents were vaccinated she was sending me tik toks of people saying they got Bell’s palsy and autism from the vaccine and I can’t stand anti vaxxers because my mom takes care of COVID patients and she describes all her patients to me and it’s terrible and every unvaccinated person is so much extra work meaning I can’t see her, and my unvaccinated cousin almost killed my 103 year old great grandmother after getting on a plane to go on vacation and she also saw her and she got really sick. Yeah unvaccinated people (by choice, not medical reasons) really strike a nerve with me so Im going to tell my friend what you said because that’s a good one. Thanks so much for your help!

LiliaKnots

Bracelet King

3 years, 2 months ago by LiliaKnots

@Love_Fox You’re right and mostly I couldn’t care less what opinions she has as long as it’s not hurting anyone but I don’t think being against BLM is ok for example but not agreeing with lgbtq+ is not the end of the world as long as she’s not mean about it, which she was which was not ok. If she keeps her opinions to herself and dosent act immature and disrespectful, it’s totally ok. But the way she acted was not. I respect her opinions but it’s the way that she doesn’t respect mine that makes me mad. The best friend I was talking about, another friend of the mean girl, and I had a talk and we all came to the conclusion that we are going to stay friends with her but sit down and talk to her about what is right and what’s not. If she can’t learn then we won’t stay friends. I think her parents weren’t the best parents. She told us that her parents rewarded her for bad behaviour and she also got kicked out of her first school in kindergarten which isn’t her fault at that young. I think we could help her have her opinions and be a better person at the same time which would be perfect if it works. Thanks for your help!

LiliaKnots

Bracelet King

3 years, 2 months ago by LiliaKnots

Ok not sure if anyone cares but it’s been a few days since school started and we literally didn’t even bring up our fight we just started talking and laughing like usual and she did actually apologize to me it was quick but still nice. And I asked her about the vaccine and she said she’s not against it anymore and she might get it in a month or two and I asked her if she could get it right now what would she say and she said 60% she would get it so that’s a start then I said “what about it are you against? Maybe I can change your mine.” And all she said was “ok I’ll get it.” So I guess that’s not an issue anymore. Anyways we are back to being good friends like we were before so thanks to everyone that helped!

LiliaKnots Bracelet King	3 years, 2 months ago by LiliaKnots @Elise64 yeah the best friend I was talking about, another friend of the mean girl, and I had a talk and we all came to the conclusion that we are going to stay friends with her but sit down and talk to her about what is right and what’s not. I think she’s really confused about everything. I think she’s also confused about the BLM movement now that I’ve thought about it. I don’t think she supports ALM because she said “black people weren’t the only people who were slaves” but that’s not really the point of the movement so maybe I should explain to her. I mean she’s not white so she doesn’t believe in white people being the best but I think she believes that other races other than black and white deserve more recognition so I am going to tell her what the BLM movement really is and maybe she’ll agree that she was wrong on that one. I don’t really know why she doesn’t want the vaccine really. When I told her my parents were vaccinated she was sending me tik toks of people saying they got Bell’s palsy and autism from the vaccine and I can’t stand anti vaxxers because my mom takes care of COVID patients and she describes all her patients to me and it’s terrible and every unvaccinated person is so much extra work meaning I can’t see her, and my unvaccinated cousin almost killed my 103 year old great grandmother after getting on a plane to go on vacation and she also saw her and she got really sick. Yeah unvaccinated people (by choice, not medical reasons) really strike a nerve with me so Im going to tell my friend what you said because that’s a good one. Thanks so much for your help!
LiliaKnots Bracelet King	3 years, 2 months ago by LiliaKnots @Love_Fox You’re right and mostly I couldn’t care less what opinions she has as long as it’s not hurting anyone but I don’t think being against BLM is ok for example but not agreeing with lgbtq+ is not the end of the world as long as she’s not mean about it, which she was which was not ok. If she keeps her opinions to herself and dosent act immature and disrespectful, it’s totally ok. But the way she acted was not. I respect her opinions but it’s the way that she doesn’t respect mine that makes me mad. The best friend I was talking about, another friend of the mean girl, and I had a talk and we all came to the conclusion that we are going to stay friends with her but sit down and talk to her about what is right and what’s not. If she can’t learn then we won’t stay friends. I think her parents weren’t the best parents. She told us that her parents rewarded her for bad behaviour and she also got kicked out of her first school in kindergarten which isn’t her fault at that young. I think we could help her have her opinions and be a better person at the same time which would be perfect if it works. Thanks for your help!
LiliaKnots Bracelet King	3 years, 2 months ago by LiliaKnots Ok not sure if anyone cares but it’s been a few days since school started and we literally didn’t even bring up our fight we just started talking and laughing like usual and she did actually apologize to me it was quick but still nice. And I asked her about the vaccine and she said she’s not against it anymore and she might get it in a month or two and I asked her if she could get it right now what would she say and she said 60% she would get it so that’s a start then I said “what about it are you against? Maybe I can change your mine.” And all she said was “ok I’ll get it.” So I guess that’s not an issue anymore. Anyways we are back to being good friends like we were before so thanks to everyone that helped!

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