I need some advice with attractions/ I am not sure if I am bisexual
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
So I am definitely attracted to guys. However I do not think the same about girls. For example I see a guy and think "cute." I see a girl and think "pretty."I am comfortable with the idea of dating girls( fyi I have not dated anyone before). And I had a dream I had a girlfriend and was happy. So that is what made me start questioning because romantic dreams usually reflect your true feelings. I am also asexual so that is making it harder for me to figure this out. Anyways if you can tell me anything that you relate to, no matter who you like, I would really appreciate the help |
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LiliaKnots
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3 years, 3 months ago by LiliaKnots
I might not be much help because I’m straight but maybe it’s just that you haven’t found the right girl yet that makes you feel the same way as guys? Have you ever seen a girl and though “wow she’s pretty I wish I could date her”? Or is it only “wow she’s pretty I wish I could look like her”? Because I like guys only and if a girl is pretty I only think about wanting to look like her or be her friend whereas with a cute guy, I think about wanting to dating him. Next time you see a pretty girl, think about what you really think about her. Do you feel like you’d want to date her or just that she’s pretty? Im not sure if I helped at all but good luck with figuring yourself out (I don’t know how to word it but I mean I hope you find out if you’re bi😅)
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Chaty_Chun
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3 years, 3 months ago by Chaty_Chun
Idk dude I’m a confuse, closeted bisexual. Like I really like dude... and I have a type and everything. But for girls I don’t have a type. Like there’s some girls where I’m like dangg she’s hot.. and others I just think eh. Like I know I’m more attracted to guys, but I’m also attracted to girls but like on a smaller scale. I don’t really have a type for girls like if I like the girl then I like her, and if I don’t I don’t. I like who I like. It doesn’t really need a title or a label.
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
@LiliaKnots Thank you for the advice. I looked up photos of different women and felt that way for some. I guess I have just not thought it before since I was in denial and raised in a homophobic community. So thank you for helping me realize who I am ❤️
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
@Chaty_Chun Omg! That is me! I thought it was weird the expression expressed itself differently. I too have a guy type, but for girls I just like who I like. Thank you so much ❤️I am now also a confused closeted bisexual 😂 |
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
Thanks to all your advice I figured out I am Bi 🎉 🎉 🎉So thank you ❤️ |
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Maialynn
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3 years, 3 months ago by Maialynn
Congrats bro! ✨🎉
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LiliaKnots
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3 years, 3 months ago by LiliaKnots
@crafter83 congratulations! I’m so glad I could help even a little and I’m glad you’ve figured out who you are! 💗💜💙
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Chaty_Chun
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3 years, 3 months ago by Chaty_Chun
Congratsssss 🥳🥳
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senor
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3 years, 3 months ago by senor
💖💜💙
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
@Maialynn Thank you 😊 ❤️
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
@LiliaKnots Thank you 😊
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
@Chaty_Chun Thank you ❤️
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crafter83
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3 years, 3 months ago by crafter83
@senor thanks, lol
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