Is Jay a gender neutral name?
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Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
I’ve been thinking about changing my name to Jay and I would like to get thoughts on if it is pretty gender neutral.
lonely1312
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lonely1312
3 years, 4 months ago by lonely1312
Yess! I do think it’s a gender neutral name
dog_l0ver
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dog_l0ver
3 years, 4 months ago by dog_l0ver
Yeah, I think so!
crafter83
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crafter83
3 years, 4 months ago by crafter83
From what I read it’s primarily masculine, but some females are named Jay too.
Like Riley is called gender neutral, but most Riley’s are female.

I’d say it’s more neutral then most names out there, like I don’t think most people would read that and assume gender. Like if you hear Clara you think female and if you hear John you think male.
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Maialynn
3 years, 4 months ago by Maialynn
I think it’s pretty gender neutral yeah it’s a little leaning towards masculine but pretty much neutral
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
Alright
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
That’s good then
SusuKnots
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SusuKnots
3 years, 4 months ago by SusuKnots
yeah i think it's gender neutral! Also it's a really cool name
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
@SusuKnots thanks!
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roundcat
3 years, 4 months ago by roundcat
I think its pretty gender neutral. Best part is you can get really creative with the spelling too.

Jay
Jey
Jei
J.
etc.
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
@roundcat yeah I like that part of it
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sPiKeY_UwU
3 years, 4 months ago by sPiKeY_UwU
I would say it’s gender neutral and as @roundcat said you can have fun customizing it to how you like it
plant-dad
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plant-dad
3 years, 4 months ago by plant-dad
I think it’s gender neutral as well! Great choice!
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Karo-H
3 years, 4 months ago by Karo-H
It is a lovely name! I would say it is gender neutral as well! 😎

Like said above you can het creative with spelling, make it your own. You will know the right one when you see it!
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
@sPiKeY_UwU yeah! Personally I think that I like Jay, J for short most. ✌🏻
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
@plant-dad Yeah! I’m gonna still try out a couple others I think but so far I like this one a lot
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
@Karo-H Thanks! I might go to a coffee shop and say my name is Jay and when they say it I can know if that feels right.
Karo-H
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Karo-H
3 years, 4 months ago by Karo-H
Trust me it is liberating! I changed mine also, I only use my real name for professional business or lesser-used social media. My true friends know it still, but all new people know me just as my name now! it is an amazing feeling and I hope you get to experience it soon as well! Do start slow and try a few out if you are not totally sure, but if you are definitely go for it!
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plant-dad
3 years, 4 months ago by plant-dad
Cool! I know that picking a name is pretty hard. I went through a lot of names before I picked mine. (I’m a trans guy btw) But my friends really helped me out a lot. I’ve also seen this thing where you write out sentences about yourself (in 3rd person) using the name and pronouns you want to try. It’s also a good way to help with dysphoria (if you have it) or to get gender euphoria!
Luna4
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Luna4
3 years, 4 months ago by Luna4
@Karo-H Thanks! (:
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