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Nanna_Ozzy
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3 years, 6 months ago by Nanna_Ozzy
So I’ve asked for a lot of advise on this site, and I apologize. Y’all just give the best advise! So anyways... I have known this guy for YEARS, (Since 5th grade) and my feelings were completely platonic. Or at least that’s what I thought. I had a crush on a different guy for a year and a half, but I didn’t really know him, and he turned out to be a jerk. We never talked so I basically just liked him for his looks, and from what other people told me about him. (I’m sorry if that sounds totally shallow.😅) I thought he was really sweet until he would tease his friends, and act like a total doofus. Eventually he left the church, which was the only time I saw him. So I went to an all nighter with some of my friends about a month ago, and I hung out with that guy that I’ve known forever (let’s call him N), his cousin, and his brother for basically the whole night. Me and N listened to music together, and talked the whole night about music, books, and about the various things going on in our town. I eventually realized that we were the only ones still awake of all of our friends, and that we were alone. We played Pokémon Go at 4 A.M. lol. He is a huge nerd like I am!🤪 As the night went on I started catching feelings... which is pretty easy to do when you find out that you have everything in common with a guy. I don’t get all nervous around him, and I felt completely comfortable with him. N has had a crush on me for quite awhile, but I didn’t think I felt the same way. Is it normal to feel completely calm, and not at all nervous around your crush? Or maybe is it all just in my head, and I’m just making up my feelings, since we have so much in common? (Sorry that this was so long lol...) |
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juliannagh
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3 years, 6 months ago by juliannagh
OK GIRL IM ABOUT TO DM YOU CUZ THIS IS CRAZY IM IN ALMSOT THE EXACT SAME SITUATION AS YOU
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crafter83
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3 years, 6 months ago by crafter83
Yeah, I usually feel comfortable around my crushes too
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PotatoPeel
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3 years, 6 months ago by PotatoPeel
Honestly if you start to feel uncomfy or nervous around your crush, its probably because you are scared about what they would think about you. But if you know that a guy likes you, and you like him back, but you arent nervous around them, its amazing because you are being you! You show your true feelings and your true personality instead of being a nervous wreck (no offense people out there who are uncomfy around their crush, its also totally normal) which can make a guy like you more. I have a feeling this guy N is worth it, so give him a shot 😄Not the best with realationship advice still a single pringle ✌️ |
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PotatoPeel
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3 years, 6 months ago by PotatoPeel
Okay oops dont mind me im just pointing out i spelt relationship wrong hehe
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Nanna_Ozzy
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3 years, 6 months ago by Nanna_Ozzy
@PotatoPeel thanks for the advise! I need all that I can get, since I’m also a single Pringle lol. (I’ve never been in a relationship)
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