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Yellowfang
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Yellowfang
3 years, 6 months ago by Yellowfang
Umm, if ur an extrovert can u give some tips to all us introverts on being more out going?
crafter83
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crafter83
3 years, 6 months ago by crafter83
I’m in the middle, but practice asking questions to people who you know will carry the conversation. That way you are more prepared when you want to start a conversation with someone and you end up having to carry it.
lucass_
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lucass_
3 years, 6 months ago by lucass_
ngl i just say whatever my brain forms. like not if it’s inappropriate but like it could be something super ludicrous, and it seems to start convos
lucass_
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lucass_
3 years, 6 months ago by lucass_
but also like, being an introvert isn’t a problem lol. i mean like i just feel like media kinda labels introverts as like cold and soulless, but like nah you guys just get energy differently. i dunno if that post was cuz you don’t like be an extrovert. but yeah it’s not a bad thing
Yellowfang
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Yellowfang
3 years, 6 months ago by Yellowfang
@lucass_ nonono I don’t mind being an introvert. I just wanna put myself out there more
Annie_Whe
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Annie_Whe
3 years, 6 months ago by Annie_Whe
Im in the middle but what i do is ask people basic questions like "how was your weekend?" "How are you doing?" and then i just add on to that to make a conversation. Heres an example
Me: how was your weekend?
Them: good, i went to the beach.
Me: thats cool! Did you see any jellyfish?
And boom you have a fool proof plan of starting a conversation! Just keep in mind that if someone doesnt want to have a conversation then dont push it.
Yellowfang
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Yellowfang
3 years, 6 months ago by Yellowfang
@Annie_Whn that’s really good advice!
Annie_Whe
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Annie_Whe
3 years, 6 months ago by Annie_Whe
To add on to my response i forgot that you can ask them if they seen this show or movie. In the chat i asked someone if they've seen Umbrella academy and we geeked out about that for a couple minutes.
Yellowfang
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Yellowfang
3 years, 6 months ago by Yellowfang
@Annie_Whe ! Great!
GenMalucci
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GenMalucci
3 years, 6 months ago by GenMalucci
@lucass_ that’s what I do too. A lot of people just look at me like “ok... weird”
lucass_
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lucass_
3 years, 6 months ago by lucass_
@GenMalucci i just end up talkin cuz i feel like when i talk people can’t help but like listen to me . like no joke. like it’s like in the greatest showman. like it’s so weird but like interesting that someone could think like that so people just stay engaged
Vivi07
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Vivi07
3 years, 6 months ago by Vivi07
I’m an introverted extrovert, and an extroverted introvert... I’m really social and conversational, but i also think a lot to myself and keep quite a lot to myself. Mostly i just say whatever’s on my mind, as long as it’s nothing ridiculous or horrible. Also people have just got used to me being weird, that also helps (: just talk about what you feel like and if you are genuinely interested in a conversation (most people would) see that and carry on the conversation woth you
workmanha
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workmanha
3 years, 6 months ago by workmanha
How many introverts clicked on this even tho it said extroverts 😂 😂
LauraLaura
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LauraLaura
3 years, 6 months ago by LauraLaura
Eye contact. Don't make eye contact like you're gonna steal their soul, but make then know that you care
sbucky5
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sbucky5
3 years, 6 months ago by sbucky5
Ask them questions about themselves and REALLY LISTEN to their answers. That way you can remember their interests and connect with them during other conversations. Like if they told you that they have a dog, later you can ask how their dog is. It makes people feel like you really care about them. People will want to have conversations with you and they will trust you.
Maky_Wacky
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Maky_Wacky
3 years, 6 months ago by Maky_Wacky
@Yellowfang Just be confident!! It’s way easier said than done but once you are confident in yourself it’s a lot easier.
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