i need sum help
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urabish
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3 years, 8 months ago by urabish
my mom gives me like no privacy, every night/whenever she feels like it, she gos through my texts and pictures and everything, and i havnt given her a reason not to trust me! also she gets mad if she finds a picture of me with a guy and it just makes me so mad, i dont know what to do
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garanceles
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3 years, 8 months ago by garanceles
I have friends with situations like this, honestly the best thing to do, according to them, is honestly to just confront her. tell her it's not fair and you need some privacy. I hop ethic helps somehow, other than that im not sure sry, I hope everything works out!
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knotnormal
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3 years, 8 months ago by knotnormal
I have this situation too, and I appreciate it at some times, I had an argument with my ex BFF over text, and I didn’t want to say anything about it, but when my parents saw the text they talked to me and helped me, also your parents are doing it because they care about you.
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 8 months ago by GenMalucci
While I agree with @knotnor
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 8 months ago by GenMalucci
Whoops
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 8 months ago by GenMalucci
While I agree with @knotnormal I totally feel the same way, I had depression last year and my thoughts were...... bad. And I felt really uncomfortable because my parents had access to everything I was dumping out. I felt alone and I didn’t need an extra opinion. Just go up to your mom and say “Hey, can we talk?” And if she comes up with an excuse, tell her she needs to listen, then say KINDLY, but firmly how you feel like your privacy is being invaded. Just tell her that you are a teen and you need your space for certain things, offer to her that she can go through photos still but you can have texts to yourself. Offer a compromise. And be firm, she won’t listen otherwise
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urabish
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3 years, 8 months ago by urabish
@GenMalucci @knotnormal @garanceles i am going to try and talk to her today, thank you so much
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Ada_Grow05
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3 years, 8 months ago by Ada_Grow05
How did it go?
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