What do you do when you have a step-parent you really really hate/dislike?
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-Nobody-
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3 years, 8 months ago by -Nobody-
I'd rather not explain. But um. That's my question.
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 8 months ago by GenMalucci
Well, I don’t have a step PARENT but I have a step grandmother that I struggle with. So I usually try to stay away from her, my house isn’t huge, but I try to keep my distance to avoid getting myself stuck in an odd position with her.
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 8 months ago by GenMalucci
Go outside, talk to a friend, knot in your room, do anything but go near them
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 8 months ago by GenMalucci
And you probably shouldn’t tell your bio parent that you don’t like your step parent. They could be really hurt
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-Nobody-
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3 years, 8 months ago by -Nobody-
@GenMalucci We've know her for 3 years already and I haven't told my bio parent anything. They're also not married so I just call her my dads gf. I've been trying to fake everything but recently it's been getting harder and harder.
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workmanha
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3 years, 8 months ago by workmanha
Well my step mom and I don't get along sometimes and for me I think I have just tried to be patient with them because I personally think it would be difficult to try to fit in with a whole new family so maybe just try and put yourself in their shoes. Also what works for me is trying to find common interests or try and compromise so like so something they enjoy with them and see if they want to so something you enjoy! If that doesn't work then just kind of keep you distance if it causes too much problems.
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sadnymph
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3 years, 8 months ago by sadnymph
i’ve never been in your position but i know how hard it can be to see your bio parents, who you love, be with someone who you don’t love. i would try to look for the good in your step parent, but if this fails, maybe don’t be the one to initiate conversation if that will make you uncomfortable. don’t ignore them of course, be nice, but immerse yourself in the things you love and if it helps, feel free to cry it out or punch it out (on a pillow)
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