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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
Ok so there is this weird guy at my school. You know..The weird guy. He is incredibly kind and thoughtful though just some background. Anyway, 2020 hit my family hard making us move to a new school and new neighborhood. Turns out my moms best friend from our last neighborhood has a best friend in the neighborhood we moved into. So my mom and her best friends best friend were mutual best friends. After they got to know each other they became best friends too! One day i go over to my moms new friends house and guess what. MY MOM IS FRIENDS WITH THE MOM OF THE WEIRD KID. So i was obligated to hang out with him. But at school everyone always kinda laughs at him cause of the stupid weird things he says in class. But other than that he is kind and fine. So after a couple months of dinners with the family his little sister told me that he HAD A CRUSH ON ME. And i was like “oOh cOOl”. And then yesterday HE DROVE TO MY HOUSE AND GAVE ME A BOX OF CAKE BALLS AND A ROSE AND HUGGED ME AND I HUGGED HIM BACK AND WAS LIKE OMG THANK YOU. IDK WHAT TO DO NOW GUYS
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workmanha
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3 years, 9 months ago by workmanha
Ok so my opinion on this is kind of religious inspired if that makes sense. So I am mormon and my religon is big on teen dating. (Not try to preach lol) But um they say that when you are in like high school to date a lot of different kind of guys so you can make a wise decision when it comes to marriage so I say try this guy out and if it doesn't work out than thats ok 🙂 Sorry for the church stuff lol
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
@workmanha Hi! I am christian, we talk about this as well but i think just about everyone does, thank you for the advice, because it helps! Also you don’t have to say sorry for your religion, be unapologetic!
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LoveAlphas
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3 years, 9 months ago by LoveAlphas
@brooklyng I say just act like you like him and be nice to him. BUT, (I learned this from my mom) if he asks you out ( and you do not like him in that way ) say NO, even if you will feel bad. It will be for the best
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
@LoveAlphas yeah but i’m just scared that my mom will
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
@LoveAlphas sorry i wasn’t finished, i’m scared my mom will get mad if i said no to going out or that his mom would get mad. I know this sounds rude but i just really don’t like him abut i feel like our parents are putting pressure on me to go on dates with him and stuff.
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LoveAlphas
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3 years, 9 months ago by LoveAlphas
@brooklyng Yeah, that is a risk but maybe if that happens tell them how you feel or don't tell them.
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
@LoveAlphas my mom would probably make me go out with him but yeah thanks for the advice it’s helpful
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LoveAlphas
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3 years, 9 months ago by LoveAlphas
@brooklyng I hope the universe is on your side and he loses feelings for you!
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Nanna_Ozzy
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3 years, 9 months ago by Nanna_Ozzy
Idk I have never dated anyone and I’m not allowed to date until I’m 16, but I will tell you what I think. I will never date someone for fun, or to just be nice. Do not lead him on. If I ever date anyone, it’s going to be because I’m head over heels for the guy. Example for what you can tell him: “hey, (insert name) you’re a really nice guy, but I don’t feel the same way.” Don’t draw it out, and make it a big thing. Just keep it plain and simple. You don’t have to do any of this, but this is what I would do if I were in your situation.
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llama1013
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3 years, 9 months ago by llama1013
@brooklyng I agree with @LoveAlphas. You shouldn't date someone simply because someone else says to, even your parents. I know it can be scary and difficult (and in some people's opinions, wrong) to stand up to your mom, but messing around with people's emotions isn't right. For example, if you dated him for a bit and then told him you actually didn't like him, that could really hurt him emotionally. Also, it would hurt you, because you'd be in a place that you didn't want, and you'd only be trying to please people (like him, and both of you guys' parents). Hopefully I'm not offending you in any way, I know that you're feeling a lot of pressure. I've been there before and totally get it. I simply mean that you should try your best to show that you aren't interested. Just do what your heart says, without getting yourself into a situation that you either don't want to be in, or one that you're not able to speak up for yourself. I'll be praying for you, you've got this ❤️
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
@Nanna_Ozzy that’s great advice, thanks! I will try that next time because his mom always makes me uncomfortable by always asking who i like in our grade. That’s true, it’s worse to let someone down a little bit than lead him on
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
@llama1013 yeah that’s good advice. Thank you all
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Ate_Trisha
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3 years, 9 months ago by Ate_Trisha
yeah i agree with everyone. its ok to say no to them even though you think that you will hurt them. dating them because you have been pressured is only going to make things worse for both of you. while yes it might seem a bit mean to say no to someone who has feelings, its better to let them know instead of dating them when you yourself don't like them. i hope this makes sense lol.
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3 years, 9 months ago by Xxpuffish
@MonicaMorg I think you posted your paragraphs to the wrong section but as for my advice I would try to really get to know him not to date him but to be friends with him and just think about what you would feel if everyone thought you were the weird kid, people like that need friends not weird looks
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brooklyng
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3 years, 9 months ago by brooklyng
He doesn't think hes the weird kid its not like that, he thinks hes cool when he jokes about really inappropriate stuff. and calls people weird names.
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pastel17
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3 years, 9 months ago by pastel17
I would just tell him no if you don't like him that's what I would do and if your mom gets mad then just tell her how you feel about him and I'm sure she will understand
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pastel17
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3 years, 9 months ago by pastel17
I don't date yet but I get what you are worried about. My mom does not know who I want to date and I think she would tell me I couldn't date him because of my age so I think I have the opposite problem
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 9 months ago by GenMalucci
If he thinks it’s cool to call people names and joke about bad stuff, decline his requests completely. He could be a really bad choice. On the other hand, if you like him, go for it. If you don’t, and it’s just peer pressure, say no, you have the right of speech so use it! Say what has to be said, your parents can’t control who you date, so make that known to them! I hope it goes well!
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shayD
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3 years, 9 months ago by shayD
I've kinda been in a similar situation where this guy from my class got my number and then asked me out over text but he was kinda a jerk and I just didn't feel ready to date so just I said no. The weird thing was that I felt really bad about saying no even though I never had a crush on him before. I got in my head and I thought like "should I like him" or "maybe he's the only person who will ever like me". You deserve better than that and you shouldn't go out with someone because you feel pressured to. You should go out with someone that you actually like. Just know if he does ask you out it's your decision and no one can change that. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
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