helppp please my friend and i got in a fight
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akanel
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3 years, 9 months ago by akanel
so my friend and i got in a really bad fight. like really bad. like end of friendship. end of eye contact bad. and i don’t want her to leave but idk if i should leave bc it was really our moms who started the fight and we were in the middle. but i hurt her. not physically but i still hurt her. idk whether to apologize or if that will make it worse. i don’t know whether i should leave bc i really like her as a friend and maybe even more than a friend. i couldn’t stand to lose her like that. should i stay silent or apologize?
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2006_Mandy
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3 years, 9 months ago by 2006_Mandy
I would apologize it’s worth trying. If you stay silent you miss out on the chance to repair a broken friendship and will never know if you could still be friends. Even if your friend doesn’t accept apologizing is normally the right thing to do and showing that you mean it can help.
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crafter83
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3 years, 9 months ago by crafter83
I don’t think apologizing would make it worse. If she reacts poorly to your apology, then she probably is not a good friend for you anywaysI wish you the best either way ❤️ |
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cute_fish
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3 years, 9 months ago by cute_fish
I don't think that apologizing would make it worse. I would definitely suggest trying to apologize because it won't make it worse. If she doesn't immediately forgive you, just try leaving her alone for a bit until she calms down again. If you really like her, you should at least try to repair your friendship. Good luck! 🙂
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csteck_5
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3 years, 9 months ago by csteck_5
this happened to me last year and I never apologized and lost her forever, apologize it will be better in the future even if you don't want to right now.
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derin16_
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3 years, 9 months ago by derin16_
i'd try to apologize and see her reaction. if she reacts poorly, i'd just peace out
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kmmorell
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3 years, 9 months ago by kmmorell
I would say. Try apologizing or atleast making amends. Even if she doesn't make an effort, just try to be on at least speakable terms. If you can't look her in the eye later, then things were never truly resolved. trust me. you want to fix things before it's too late. ANd if you become friends again and make up then wonderful, but if she refuses, then atleast you made amends
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bsoftball
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3 years, 9 months ago by bsoftball
Apologize, at least it should make you feel better. This happened to me once and she forgave me, but even if your friend doesn’t you’ll feel better about it knowing you tried.
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adelaide0f
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3 years, 9 months ago by adelaide0f
If you still feel this way, I would apologize immediately. If you really miss her, then she should miss you too. If she doesn’t, then she’s not a great friend. I don’t know what the fight was about (and you don’t have to say), but I think if you are really friends, she’ll probably feel the same. If she reacts poorly, then you at least tried and you fixed your side of the problem, and you can’t force her to forgive you.
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knot_maker
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3 years, 9 months ago by knot_maker
I think apologizing might be a good idea, and then explain a few things might make her feel better and forgive you
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Nanna_Ozzy
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3 years, 9 months ago by Nanna_Ozzy
Apologize, and talk it out. You will regret not saying anything, if you just go on with life as if she was never your friend,
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pastel17
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3 years, 9 months ago by pastel17
I think it would be best to apologize me and my bff fight all the time but we are still friends because we apologize to each other
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sadnymph
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3 years, 9 months ago by sadnymph
apologising is always good. it shows that you’re strong enough to accept what happened and put that behind you. if she doesn’t see this then she’s not worth it
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GenMalucci
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3 years, 9 months ago by GenMalucci
Say something along the lines of “I’m super sorry we got into a fight. 🙁” and then explain why. Make yourself seem like the main argued even if you weren’t. People will be more likely to apologize back or want to be your friend if you make yourself the issue of the fight good luck! 😊
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