what to do if you have a crush on someone
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Ok so I don’t know what to do. I have a crush on this really really smart kid in my language arts class. He so super sweet,kind,funny and like always there for you. What should I do because I like really like him but idk if I should say something or just keep it to myself
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busternoel
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4 years ago by busternoel
Maybe become friends with him( if y’all aren’t already) and then see where it goes from there.
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Ok ty
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busternoel
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4 years ago by busternoel
Like see if he is really who you think he is before telling him that way just in case it’s like a front he puts on in front of people, and it’s not the true him, if you know what I mean.
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Ya I get it tysvm this is my first crush and my friends would all laugh at me for liking him cause he is not the kid people have crushes on
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fuzzyfox
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4 years ago by fuzzyfox
I say keep to yourself for a while, watch him, but not suspiciously, make a joke and see who the first person he looks at it, if it's you there is a good chance for you. Be yourself, be kind to other people, be there for other people, especially him, and pay attention. When he talks to you raise your eyebrows, it shows that you are listening and interested in what he is saying. Just watch for a while. That way you can figure things out slowly. It's better to take things slow, learn all about the person, and them learn about you, so that if you do care for each other, you will have a place to stand in a relationship. Also once he really gets to know you he might start caring for you if he doesn't already, or begin to care for you more than he already did. Anyway, that is my advice, hope it helps! 😊😁
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Omg that is a lot but super helpful ty
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sama123
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4 years ago by sama123
Well... I don't know anything really about relationships but I would say if you think you are ready to say something say it. I had a crush on 2 people one kid was from a thing I went to for my school band and I didn't even know their name when I sat right next to them😂. And the other kid I had a crush on was in my school and in my class but they moved away and I was heart broken yet somehow relaxed about it or something. I don't really know. I have been in your shoes before trust me but you have to stick with your own gut. Another thing is i always kept it to myself because I was scared to tell someone, but I would maybe keep it to yourself until maybe you get a feeling that they like a back. ❤️
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Ok ty you so much guys I just want to have a plan so when we get back from winter brake I know what to do
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sama123
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4 years ago by sama123
No problem! Also, I forgot to add this is really important: He has to live you for the real you not someone that you are not. It is just something he should know show your real self not a fake self. ❤️
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Well I think he has seen me as real as it gets considering I had a 30 minute panic attack in class last week lol
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
And the best part was he was the only one who asked if I was ok 🥰
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Nanna_Ozzy
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4 years ago by Nanna_Ozzy
@horselove1 that is so sweet!❤️ I agree with just stepping back and watching, but just don’t do it for a long time. I speak from experience. I just watched for a whole year, and it hurt so bad when I heard that he was leaving my church. (That is the only place I see him) the longer you wait, the harder it will be to talk to them. Honestly I would just try to be their friend, and go from there.
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horselove1
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4 years ago by horselove1
Ok ty for all your help
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