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_arianao

Bracelet King

4 years, 1 month ago by _arianao

So there is this girl who lives in my neighborhood and there is also this boy who also lives in my neighborhood. I recently became friends with this girl and I have had a crush on that boy and have known him for a while. so the other day she texts me and asks if I'm outside so she could talk to me. So she gets to my house and the boy was just leaving cause I was talking to him. she asks how school is going and how volleyball is going I tell her it's been good and I ask about she's been. Then literally after only like 1 minute of talking to me (she doesn't know I like the boy), she tells me in a rude tone "I saw you trick or treating with him, and once I saw leave you to another house that he had already been to I went up to him and told him he was cute and asked for his number then I saw you go back with him and left" she told me this just to brag in my face and make me jealous. but she said that he never responds to her. I was telling my other friend(who is a boy and is his friend) what she had told me and according to him, the boy doesn't really like her like that. Then later that night she texts me and says "does he have a gf" and I said no and every time she comes to my house to talk to me she only talks about him so I came to the conclusion that she only talks to me and is my "friend" because me and him are really close and she wants to know things about him. and today he had posted me and him playing on the playground in our neighborhood on his story and she literally looked so mad. also there are these 2 boys that also live on my street and they are friends with him and they are always together and when they are outside I usually go out there and play football with them and when I see her pass by(cause she always skateboarding around the neighborhood) I wave to her and she looks mad that I'm with him but I'm just being nice and she doesn't understand that.

I need advice🙁also sorry for that really long storytime

2006_Mandy

Bracelet King

4 years, 1 month ago by 2006_Mandy

It sounds like she only wants to be your friend to get information and that is taking advantage of you. No friend would ever do that and they seem to be a fake friend, it can be hard to understand as sometimes even old past amazing friends start to take advantage of you. My advice is learn to value what is most important to you and don't give your "friend" the information she wants unless she truly values you for your friendship and not information.

_arianao

Bracelet King

4 years, 1 month ago by _arianao

@2006_Mandy thank you for the advice it means a lot. she just facetimed me again not that long ago and I was with him at the gas station at the front of my neighborhood and she literally only wanted to talk to him 🙁

_arianao Bracelet King	4 years, 1 month ago by _arianao So there is this girl who lives in my neighborhood and there is also this boy who also lives in my neighborhood. I recently became friends with this girl and I have had a crush on that boy and have known him for a while. so the other day she texts me and asks if I'm outside so she could talk to me. So she gets to my house and the boy was just leaving cause I was talking to him. she asks how school is going and how volleyball is going I tell her it's been good and I ask about she's been. Then literally after only like 1 minute of talking to me (she doesn't know I like the boy), she tells me in a rude tone "I saw you trick or treating with him, and once I saw leave you to another house that he had already been to I went up to him and told him he was cute and asked for his number then I saw you go back with him and left" she told me this just to brag in my face and make me jealous. but she said that he never responds to her. I was telling my other friend(who is a boy and is his friend) what she had told me and according to him, the boy doesn't really like her like that. Then later that night she texts me and says "does he have a gf" and I said no and every time she comes to my house to talk to me she only talks about him so I came to the conclusion that she only talks to me and is my "friend" because me and him are really close and she wants to know things about him. and today he had posted me and him playing on the playground in our neighborhood on his story and she literally looked so mad. also there are these 2 boys that also live on my street and they are friends with him and they are always together and when they are outside I usually go out there and play football with them and when I see her pass by(cause she always skateboarding around the neighborhood) I wave to her and she looks mad that I'm with him but I'm just being nice and she doesn't understand that. I need advice🙁also sorry for that really long storytime
2006_Mandy Bracelet King	4 years, 1 month ago by 2006_Mandy It sounds like she only wants to be your friend to get information and that is taking advantage of you. No friend would ever do that and they seem to be a fake friend, it can be hard to understand as sometimes even old past amazing friends start to take advantage of you. My advice is learn to value what is most important to you and don't give your "friend" the information she wants unless she truly values you for your friendship and not information.
_arianao Bracelet King	4 years, 1 month ago by _arianao @2006_Mandy thank you for the advice it means a lot. she just facetimed me again not that long ago and I was with him at the gas station at the front of my neighborhood and she literally only wanted to talk to him 🙁

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