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Emaleee

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4 years, 2 months ago by Emaleee

Ya so I'm really sad and single rn and I don't know what to do sometimes, especially because all of my friends have bf's and I've never even been in a relationship so ya, I need some advice or something

rubisaa11

Bracelet King

4 years, 2 months ago by rubisaa11

I'm right in the same boat as you😕 My advice would be to not care. I know it can be hard to not dwell on the fact that you're single, but focus on the things in life that make you happy. Two years ago, my best friend got her first bf and she completely forgot about me and our other friends. Over the last few years, she's been in a couple long relationships, but then one month later, she gets a new bf. We've kinda drifted apart because of that, which is sad, but that's just how things end up sometimes. Now, I've made a lot of new friends and I have fun with them! I'm not saying that you should ditch your friends too. Just maybe try to branch out a little and meet new people. And don't worry about not having a bf. I'm almost 17 and I've never been kissed so its okay 🙂 I also saw in your bio that you're a freshman. I'm a junior now, and two years ago I was in the exact same position as you. Freshman year was really hard for me too because all of my friends had bfs. Throughout middle school, I had only had that one best friend, but meeting new people in high school was perfect for me to get out of my shell. Just know that you're going to get through this time and you're going to get to know yourself better and become a stronger person because of it 😇

elephants1

Bracelet King

4 years, 2 months ago by elephants1

things take time 🙂

LaylaH101

Bracelet King

4 years, 2 months ago by LaylaH101

sometimes its better to have your feelings spared. like, when ur in a relationship its rlly awesome...but when it ends, its so sudden and ur not the same. it can rlly affect a person. i suggest u take ur time and only get into a relationship when you are not only ready for love but ready for heartbreak.

jesmc2129

Bracelet King

4 years, 2 months ago by jesmc2129

Please don’t think that there’s a timeline you have to follow. It’s more important to wait for the person who *really* connects with you. Don’t worry about what other people are doing because they aren’t you. Their “timeline” will be different from yours. I didn’t have a boyfriend until I was 17, but I rushed that relationship and it ended badly. I ended up swearing off dating completely until I met my boyfriend, who *really* understands me. We’re in college now and we’ve been together for over a year.

Emaleee Bracelet King	4 years, 2 months ago by Emaleee Ya so I'm really sad and single rn and I don't know what to do sometimes, especially because all of my friends have bf's and I've never even been in a relationship so ya, I need some advice or something
rubisaa11 Bracelet King	4 years, 2 months ago by rubisaa11 I'm right in the same boat as you😕 My advice would be to not care. I know it can be hard to not dwell on the fact that you're single, but focus on the things in life that make you happy. Two years ago, my best friend got her first bf and she completely forgot about me and our other friends. Over the last few years, she's been in a couple long relationships, but then one month later, she gets a new bf. We've kinda drifted apart because of that, which is sad, but that's just how things end up sometimes. Now, I've made a lot of new friends and I have fun with them! I'm not saying that you should ditch your friends too. Just maybe try to branch out a little and meet new people. And don't worry about not having a bf. I'm almost 17 and I've never been kissed so its okay 🙂 I also saw in your bio that you're a freshman. I'm a junior now, and two years ago I was in the exact same position as you. Freshman year was really hard for me too because all of my friends had bfs. Throughout middle school, I had only had that one best friend, but meeting new people in high school was perfect for me to get out of my shell. Just know that you're going to get through this time and you're going to get to know yourself better and become a stronger person because of it 😇
elephants1 Bracelet King	4 years, 2 months ago by elephants1 things take time 🙂
LaylaH101 Bracelet King	4 years, 2 months ago by LaylaH101 sometimes its better to have your feelings spared. like, when ur in a relationship its rlly awesome...but when it ends, its so sudden and ur not the same. it can rlly affect a person. i suggest u take ur time and only get into a relationship when you are not only ready for love but ready for heartbreak.
jesmc2129 Bracelet King	4 years, 2 months ago by jesmc2129 Please don’t think that there’s a timeline you have to follow. It’s more important to wait for the person who really connects with you. Don’t worry about what other people are doing because they aren’t you. Their “timeline” will be different from yours. I didn’t have a boyfriend until I was 17, but I rushed that relationship and it ended badly. I ended up swearing off dating completely until I met my boyfriend, who really understands me. We’re in college now and we’ve been together for over a year.

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